Friendship
By Loriemei10
@Loriemei10 (1)
Philippines
8 responses
@yeyu1215 (4)
• China
28 Oct 07
There is an old say that you can kowe someone but you cann't konwe his or her hert!Howevre you together you cann't kowe what he or she is thinking!!So I think tust is the basic of a good frindship!Trust can win your friend's hert!When you expess you trust to them!Okay,they will give their trust to you!So give your trust to your frinds,you will win their herts!!
@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
28 Oct 07
Friendship is an in-depth relationship combining trust, support, communication, loyalty, understanding, empathy, and intimacy. Friendship is comfortable and relaxed. Friendship requires meeting the needs of both friends. As they say...'that's what friends are for...in good times and in bad times, they are in each oter's arms.
BUT, friendships may not last. Friendships can lose importance and die gradually. Some friendships end abruptly with unresolved conflict. The worst enemy of friendships is change by one or both friends. There is usually pain with the loss of friendship.
http://www.cyberparent.com/friendship/friends-end-losing-friendships.htm. Carole King's song, "You've Got A Friend" promises "Winter, spring, summer, or fall--all you've got to do is call--and I'll be there." Many people expect that their friends will always be there. They expect friendship to last forever.
Yet, friendships end and friends part company everyday. Unfortunately, even the best maintained friendships can end.
Many end because of a change in personality or lifestyle when friends just drift apart and fade away with time. There is a retreat from self-disclosure and seeking out each other's company. Avoidance begins. The friendship slowly loses importance and finally disappears.
@sweetcakes (3504)
• United States
22 Oct 07
A true Friendship is had with someone you can trust. Someone you can be accountable with and someone who will not take personal issues outside your friendship. This can be called trust. Trust is the most important factor in any friendship and once broken, its hard to get back to where you started and involves forgiveness
@men82in (1268)
• India
24 Oct 07
Once you are under a friendship there is no matter of believing or not . Whether friend is of good character or bad if faithful friend means truely acceptable. It does not mean that upto last everybody to be helpful and all reality is the main criterio for friendship.
@cobradene (1171)
• India
24 Oct 07
Yes, it's very important to know each other. But how will you be able to know each other? Only if you give space right? There needs to be ample space between the two of you to explore the relationship. But more than that, there should be broad-mindedness and friends should not be possessive of each other. Love should exist without possession and insecurity. That's how we can continue to grow as individuals and mature in our minds and evolve to higher dimensions. There should be Godliness in every relationship. Friendship is one aspect of human relationships which God has given us to be the foundation of all relationships in life. Even parents have to learn to be good friends of their children first. Lovers also should be good friends and then be lovers and similarly business partners, associates, politicians. Everybody. Just as love is universal, even friendship is a universal relationship which can fit in any walk of life and any form of living.
Friendship also just like love doesn't bind, but only connects.
@moneygod1 (15)
• Singapore
24 Oct 07
Yes friendship is important,but we nowadays it is very difficult to find friends who will be with you through thick and thin.Most friends just want to enjoy the good times.
So the bottomline is,have a few good trustworthy friends,whom u can grow close to,who will be with u through thick and thin.
But at the same time,have other "types" of friends who can bring you happiness ot have fun with you,dont u agree?
Regards,chris
@hanreq (1444)
• Philippines
22 Oct 07
yeah!!i know what is friendship...for me,friendship is a part of our life that you can't live without friends...its give a happiness in our life...and friends is always there for you..still love your friends forever...by the way,welcome to mylot....enjoy posting...take care always...and god bless you....=D
@tryxiness (4544)
• Philippines
22 Oct 07
i believe that friendship is a process. you don't actually right away trust someone... it's the constant interaction, and how you have spent your times together. there are some friendships that started oddly, and yet eventually become best friends forever.
if you have time, try reading the book THE LITTLE PRINCE... it tells of how unique friendship is. :)