do you believe in quotation............
By arbablatif
@arbablatif (63)
United Arab Emirates
October 22, 2007 9:09am CST
What is your opinion about the quotation
"FIRST IMPRESSION IS THE LAST IMPRESSION"
what do you thing about this .Is it true according to your assessments .OR is it wrongly said.
1 response
@xenokitten (68)
• United States
22 Oct 07
I believe it is wrong. When I first met my current boyfriend, he invited me over to his house. He answered the door in sweatpants and a tshirt that was way too big and looked really sloppy. Worst of all we were both so shy and quiet that we sat very far apart from eachother playing games together in silence. I was there about 8 hours and barely talked at all. He offered me a drink when I got there and when I left he asked for a hug, but I was thinking to myself, no way would I date him, and how horrible the first date went and how disappointed I was.
But after that visit we began talking more and I began to learn more about his personality over time and after a few months love just naturally happened. If I had kept my first impression, would not have given him another chance etc. We've now been dating for almost 5 years. And in those 5 years my opinion of him has changed many times.
Sometimes the longer you know someone the more you find out and the more you either like or dislike about the person. We as humans are constantly taking in information about others and forming and reforming our opinions about them.
@arbablatif (63)
• United Arab Emirates
23 Oct 07
xenokitten i am impressed with your explanation.You have given an example from your life.
I also agree with you that we should not make judgment abut other person in the first meeting.In my opinion this refers to good impression if a person casts a good impressioni its first meetng then it will put this person in the good book .What do u say abt this?