Your best friend's sister or brother is your past spouse.

@aowaow (1516)
Indonesia
October 22, 2007 10:44pm CST
Love will always appears in any snippets in life, even you can fall in love to your best friend's sis/bro. But in the end, she/he the one broke you up. How do live on with your relationship with your best friend after the broke up?
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jessicafri
@jessicafri (30)
• China
23 Oct 07
A real friend will not mind you are a past spouse of her/his sister or brother. And she/he will not make you feel bad or embarrassed. So, treat your best friend just like that your past spouse is another poeple who have no relationship with her/him. Don't make simple things to be complex. Just remember that you need to treat with is your good friend's sister or brother, not your good friend.
aowaow
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
26 Oct 07
In text concept, we can easily say so. But not all people can accept it by verbally and using their body language. Some will avoid, just a few will try to build the ruin 's back
mamasan34
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
23 Oct 07
Well, first of all if your best friend is the one who tried to break you and her brother/sister up, then he/she wasn't a very good friend to begin with. Honestly, I would just move on and find other friends. Life changes us, and as we go through our life, we lose friends and gain friends. We change and things change with us. So, maybe it is just time for you to move forward and find a new best friend, someone who you can count on regardless, but this is a lesson learned and just be more cautious.
aowaow
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
26 Oct 07
One lesson is not adequate for all, but one lesson is already a concept to the others. Maintaining this kind of relationships mostly are hard, better left until it's fading. But there are some, a few that can do so.
marymarj2002
@marymarj2002 (1769)
• Philippines
23 Oct 07
I think that is a very hard thing for we might try not to make our relationship be affected but it would somehow be affected. The best thing to do is even if the two of you broke up you should keep your relationship good. I think it is important it would atleast somehow be a help also in your relationhip with your bestfriend.
aowaow
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
26 Oct 07
Yes, what we try is always to maintain the hub, but people is different to each other. Some will still made contact with us, but others will leave them in fading occasion.
phillygirl606
@phillygirl606 (1112)
• United States
23 Oct 07
This actually happened to me. I was dating my bestfriend at the time brother. We were together for 4 years. And we all hung out together. It was a bad breakup. harsh words and bitter feelings After the break up the friendship with my bestfriend diminished. If your gonna try to stay friends with an ex's sis or brother just keep in mind that blood is thicker than water. I learned that the hard way
aowaow
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
23 Oct 07
I'm sorry, I can feel it. and it's hard to live on just like you said, blood is thicker than water, and left a strange feeling after those.