Do you feel Lucky to have children?
By cool1girl
@cool1girl (248)
India
October 22, 2007 11:28pm CST
I feel extremely lucky to have the most loving and doting baby boy.He loves me and cares for me to the extent that I dont miss anyone in my life.I have been able to pass the most difficult phase of my life in a good way because of him.Do your children make you feel on top of the world?
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@bindy1234 (39)
• Australia
27 Oct 07
Personally i've always loved the saying "Children Are A Privilege Not A Right". I have been privileged enough to have four, two of each and they are the best. Nobody else can make me smile as easily or love as easily. The unconditional love is the ultimate feeling though. Good Luck from one happy mum to another.
@cool1girl (248)
• India
27 Oct 07
Wow!That's a handful! but the best part is that you are happy to have all of them. God bless you and all the best to you too!
@brookehaun (233)
• United States
27 Oct 07
My son deinfinately makes me feel extremely lucky!! There is no love like the love of a mother and child, and I don't think you truly know what love is until you have a child! No matter what goes "bad" during the day as soon as i see him everyhting is ok and everything else dissapears!! I feel sorry for those who can not have children because you can adopt or do whatever you want but there is nothing like hearing "i love you" coming from the baby you brought to life! It is the most rewarding role i play!!
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@cool1girl (248)
• India
27 Oct 07
Yes, its true.... no one or nothing can replace the feeling of unconditional love from your baby.It makes you feel on top of the world!It can help you to tide over the most difficult things in life!God bless you!
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
23 Oct 07
I do feel lucky to be a mom...My children are my life and I am all too aware that there are many women who sadly are UNABLE to have children so yes I do feel very lucky and fortunate...
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@cool1girl (248)
• India
24 Oct 07
It is indeed unfortunate....I thank God ever so often to bless me with a child!He was born to me under extremely difficult circumstances and I am lucky that even in those circumstances, he was healthy.
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
23 Oct 07
yes, i'm so lucky having my daughter..she's the most precious gift that God given to me..even though her daddy leaves us but i don't care, what's the important is my daughter is with me, i don't need a person who has no love and care for us..
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@cool1girl (248)
• India
24 Oct 07
Just lead your life happily and if ever you can find someone to love you and your baby -go for him!
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
23 Oct 07
I feel very lucky to have my own daughter... i know of some people who have been trying for years but were not successfull... but my husband and i tried only for a few weeks and then my baby daughter came along... she is such an angel given to us by God... i hope to have some more...
@cool1girl (248)
• India
24 Oct 07
Wish you all the best .May you be blessed with as many loving and doting babies as you desire.
@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
23 Oct 07
You are lucky to have such a adorable boy. For me, though I love my 3 sons very much but they always make me angry. They are very naughty and one thing that make really mad is when they talk back. Really irritating. But when they are not around or at school, I really miss them. I think some kids are naturally naughty.
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@cool1girl (248)
• India
24 Oct 07
I would like to share something with you- my kid also talks backs now sometimes, but I keep my cool (at most times) and tell him how much it hurts and ask him no to do it.Sometimes he listens, sometimes he doesn't.But at the end of the day, he loves and cares for me like no other.But you are brave to be managing 3 children at the same time....all the best!
@patgalca (18366)
• Orangeville, Ontario
23 Oct 07
I spent the whole six years of my first marriage try to conceive a baby. Six months after my husband had up and left me I found myself pregnant. Not exactly the circumstances I had hoped for, but I was elated. I didn't know who the father was and when I did find out he had already abandoned us. I raised my daughter alone for two years and they were the best years of my life. She was such a joy to come home to and I truly felt like I was in love with her. I am very lucky to have her. But raising her alone was not easy.
She is fourteen now and has an eleven year old sister. Sometimes they cause me grief but I do miss them when they are away and I wouldn't trade them for anything in the world. I'd have my husband move out before I would let anyone take my kids. The thought of them growing up and moving out scares me. My husband lives far away from his family and I guess I can understand how his mother feels, even though she had 8 kids and 6 are living nearby. There is just such a strong bond between a mother and child that I don't feel can be broken.
@cool1girl (248)
• India
24 Oct 07
I wish circumstances werent so hard on you- but you are right- it is scary to think of the time when your children will grow up and lead their own lives.
@monicathinks407 (311)
• United States
23 Oct 07
Of course mine do. It sounds like you are a very proud mom and I think that is great. I know I was blessed with my 2 children. It makes me giggle when I hear them talk about me like I'm some scholar...lol. I think it is cute that children think so highly of their parents. They make me feel like I can do anything!
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@cool1girl (248)
• India
24 Oct 07
Children have this amazing trust in you .Sometimes I wonder where it comes from-maybe from their innoccence.
@surfaholic (190)
• Philippines
27 Oct 07
yes i do. me and my wife waited 5 years to have a baby. and double lucky because it turn out to be a son. now my son is turning 2 years old on january.
@kangel48446 (507)
• United States
2 Nov 07
Yes, I feel very lucky to have my two little girls. They are my proudest accomplishment! My life hasn't been the same since I had my first daughter and I would never trade motherhood for anything in this world. :-) Children are a blessing from God and nobody should ever second guess it.