while kissing...
@angelic_devil (114)
India
October 28, 2006 3:47am CST
It depends on the relationship you have with the person you are kissing. If it is a lover or a spouse, the rules are quite different than if it is a new person in your life and the kiss is a beginning to something that hasn't yet reached a more intimate stage.
If it is a new person but an intimate kiss, I would put my hands on the person but somewhere neutral like around her back or on her shoulders. If it is my wife, I can't tell you, it is private and personal!Depending on how well you know each other, hands can do different things while you kiss. If it´s the very first kiss, it might be good to just keep your hands at your side or on his back.
If you´re more comfortable with each other, try just hugging each other with your arms. Or slowly slide your hand across his back.You can use your hands and arms to pull the other person close, and to increase contact. That´s always a nice feeling!One of my favorites, you can also run your fingers through your partner´s hair. Having your hands near their head can start to feel´controlling´, so be cautious with this, but gentle caresses should be fine.
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19 responses
@atulskulkarni (43)
• India
28 Oct 06
It is more of a eloquant description that you have given... I would just want to add one thing here, I would rather let it happen gradually with eachother's confidence. I would rather say let the act take its own course rather than go for it with a prejudiced or a predecided mindset. I am more of a romantic kind of person at heart... So I would like to express what I feel for the person through that gesture...
One thing surely will be a turn off and that is "force" if used by either of the two... I think it just kills the entire emotions if it is forceful...
@angelic_devil (114)
• India
28 Oct 06
well said dude...but i must tell u that a bit of awarness about what to do and what not to do can actually make a hell of a difference in enjoying the whole experience. i order to make the person come back to u for more..u need to learn a few things.
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@angelic_devil (114)
• India
29 Oct 06
now i will tell u how to FRENCH KISS......
start out slow......... release your inhibitions.......... get out your tongues......... start playing around with dem.......... slowly and steadily increase the pace.......... after a while....... start slowly nibbling each other's lips......... a small bite now and then ........ add passion to it, by getting in some dark chocolate in between those luscious lips....... smash that piece of choc and start lickin it off from each others lips.........
there can be many more variations to this...... just keep experimenting.......
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@marymarilyn (42)
• United States
1 Nov 06
This comment could get someone in trouble.
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@edm2000eclipse (1003)
• United States
3 Nov 06
kissing is kinda gross if you think about it, who wants to taste someone elses spit, yuck
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@wildpvcgal (1085)
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7 Nov 06
Lol don,t think about it just do it, you'll feel the chemistry that comes with it! xx
@angelic_devil (114)
• India
31 Oct 06
thats good....is there any specific pattern u follow or just let things happen?
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@shan1_cell (736)
• Nigeria
3 Nov 06
Well i knowbut it all depends on who the person is to you.
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@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
4 Nov 06
coming from msia, i would say that it's not wise to kiss publicly as people here tends to be very conservative. i love kissing, and i do kiss a lot with my bf. sometimes, we will take a break from working, just to give each other a peck on the cheek, or maybe kiss and hug...though it may not necessary lead to anything else!
@wildpvcgal (1085)
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7 Nov 06
I would kiss my man with passion, hands on his face or round theback of his neck! When it comes to close friends I always give them a hug goodbye with a peck on the lip or cheeks. xx
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@praveenkumar06 (4077)
• Hyderabad, India
28 Oct 06
kissing make both to gethere
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@sirohiya (193)
• India
4 Nov 06
It is more of a eloquant description that you have given... I would just want to add one thing here, I would rather let it happen gradually with eachother's confidence. I would rather say let the act take its own course rather than go for it with a prejudiced or a predecided mindset. I am more of a romantic kind of person at heart... So I would like to express what I feel for the person through that gesture...
One thing surely will be a turn off and that is "force" if used by either of the two... I think it just kills the entire emotions if it is forceful...
