what will be your wedding motiff?

I don't understand your question. In fact, all of us also need to pass through wedding process to continue our life to next generation. No everyone in this world got the chance of wedding since we have imbalance quantity of male and female in this world. We can not fulfill everyone and match everyone in this world. You should proud if you can have a family and your children. You should use the word motive but you should use the word objective. In fact, wedding is not something worst as you think. You should understand that family is your most close people. If you don't have a family, then you will feel very lonely when you reach old age. Nobody is going to help you to do anything when you are old age. So be more optimistic on wedding. In fact, it will be get more than you think, so stop thinking of others. Find your best partner and start a family with her/him. Good luck to you.