Interpret my dream.....

India
October 25, 2007 12:48am CST
People there is something that i cant understand, i need some help with this!! Well i need to tell you something for you guys to understand the background. I had a break up recently, i was in the relationship for 11 months!! i loved her from the bottom of my heart, she was my first and true love!!! Then just about three months back she ditched me for someone else, she says she hates me and that i am the wrost person ever!! trust me guys i did everything to make it work, i gave her everything and was honest and true to her always. anywyas one month back that is two months after my break up, i wasnt out of her....... at that time a girl praposed to me!!! she wasnt ever gone come back, and the feeling of losing her and having such a bad experiance was killing me!! no matter what i did i coudnt hate her for whatever she did, i instead started hurting myself for it. The only way for me to get out of that phase was to actually get into a new relationship (that is how i saw things), i have known this girl for last 2 yrs almost.... she knows everything about me!! I said yes to her..... it was a decesion month back but since then after a month i have started loving her. i am very happy with her..... she loves me a lot and i Love her too. True i doesnt feel like my first love but I am sure i will never ever hurt this girl, i will always try n keep her happy and i love her!!! is this rite or worng? will i ever be able to love this girl like i loved her?? and about my drems, I still at sometimes dream about my ex..... not exactly romantic dreams but i do dream about her. Just a few days back, in my dream she had called me up, we had a talk and she just said to me that since she has left me she isnt happy and all that!!! The most wiered thing is in my dream that call for me from my ex came from the new girls number!!! it was all a dream, its wiered...... but then is i supposed to mean something???
4 responses
sang2k2
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
5 Nov 07
hi aka, well its sad to hear about your story but i am feeling that you have recovered from it. I think that what you did ws right in enterign a new relation as than the things go easier as comapred to if you would have had alone as than it would have ahd difficult to come out of it. It feels bad to see thibgs like this and its worst to experince things like this. But time is a healer and it has definately taught you a lesson and now you would definately value evry ones emotions, this is the lesson life has taught you.Just think positive and forget your past,and ask yourself one question that will you be able to take your ex back and accept her as the way you behaved with her prior? Juz think about it and you may get the ans and you would automatically stop thinking about her. One more qs dont betray your present as once ur ex has left you alone, so its difficult for you to trust her now.all the best..be happy
sang2k2
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
5 Nov 07
hi aka, well its sad to hear about your story but i am feeling that you have recovered from it. I think that what you did ws right in enterign a new relation as than the things go easier as comapred to if you would have had alone as than it would have ahd difficult to come out of it. It feels bad to see thibgs like this and its worst to experince things like this. But time is a healer and it has definately taught you a lesson and now you would definately value evry ones emotions, this is the lesson life has taught you.Just think positive and forget your past,and ask yourself one question that will you be able to take your ex back and accept her as the way you behaved with her prior? Juz think about it and you may get the ans and you would automatically stop thinking about her. One more qs dont betray your present as once ur ex has left you alone, so its difficult for you to trust her now.all the best..be happy
Daffodil20
@Daffodil20 (1754)
• India
4 Nov 07
You dream of your previous girlfriend,which means you might not have got over her yet.But nice to know that you are happy and love your new friend,though not as much as the ex one.but in a month's time you can fill the void.your ex calling othrough your present girlfriend's number is not so significant.You want her to confess that she too is hurt like she hurt you.I dont know if I am wrong or right but thois is what I feel.Thanks and have a nice day.
sang2k2
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
5 Nov 07
hi aka, well its sad to hear about your story but i am feeling that you have recovered from it. I think that what you did ws right in enterign a new relation as than the things go easier as comapred to if you would have had alone as than it would have ahd difficult to come out of it. It feels bad to see thibgs like this and its worst to experince things like this. But time is a healer and it has definately taught you a lesson and now you would definately value evry ones emotions, this is the lesson life has taught you.Just think positive and forget your past,and ask yourself one question that will you be able to take your ex back and accept her as the way you behaved with her prior? Juz think about it and you may get the ans and you would automatically stop thinking about her. One more qs dont betray your present as once ur ex has left you alone, so its difficult for you to trust her now.all the best..be happy