Do you feel unappreciated if no one leaves a comment on you friendster?
By paxmundi
@paxmundi (80)
Philippines
October 25, 2007 5:35am CST
I've been on friendster for more than six months now and have a few friends who I personally know. Once in a while just to keep in touch I leave them a comment to say "hi" or say some nice thing. But until now none of them has left a comment for me even if they visit my account often. I can't help but feel bad. Does anyone out there share my sentiments? Won't you feel bad if no one left you a comment on your friendster?
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12 responses
@dianne17k (587)
• Philippines
16 Nov 07
I know exactly how you feel. I do feel bad when it seems that nobody cares how i'm doing. i check my account often and just seeing that no one i know views my account makes me a little blue. Just put it this way, the people you know might just be a little too busy for friendster chitchat but it doesn't mean that people don't think about you. cheer up!
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@orange_cien (94)
• Philippines
27 Oct 07
I don't feel bad because I know that they are my friends and I trust them that they still remains friends with me. If I want to be in touch with old buddies, I would call them in their mobiles so that I will be able to hear their voice and make sure that they are doing good. :)
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@bluishrose (2289)
• Philippines
8 May 08
Sometimes if I expect a comment or message from him/her when I give him one. But nah I just say to myself maybe the person is busy or its not in his thing to send or give comments.
@tryxiness (4544)
• Philippines
25 Oct 07
I won't feel bad at all. The very fact that they visit my account is enough for me to know that atleast they do remember me. :)
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@cheapscake1326 (43)
• Philippines
26 Oct 07
well, for a start, you should make the first move of leaving them a comment and then they might just leave you a comment too. =)
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
11 May 08
No, I don't feel unappreciated at all. For me, it is okay if no one would leave a comment for a week or so...
@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
5 Nov 07
Not really, not all discussions are as easy to jump into. Could be that friends are busy on other friends discussions.. With mylot be so big..over 100,000 members.. You can imagine there are many responses to keep up with:)
@blueinferno2001 (100)
• Indonesia
2 Dec 07
nah, not at all. i often visit some of my friend's. and if i have to leave comments on all profiles i visited, i'd be banned for spamming...hahaha...
@lala101 (2)
• Philippines
19 Nov 07
No, not at all. One cannot measure how he/she is valued by his/her friends through receiving comments. Some comments are crappy, anyway. If you know you have real friends in real life, you don't have to feel blue when you don't get comments that often. :
@wgn_white (77)
• Malaysia
17 Dec 07
Well, I may thing the same as you.
But, they always send me private message.
Maybe you should use send message instead os sent comments...
