fate and Destiny,who make these things???

you do have control of your fate and destiny sometimes i guess. we can only take ourselves so far. we can only control the controlable but there is so much out there we have no control over.

I believe we make our own destiny. I believe it all lies on the decisions and actions that we make everyday of our lives. If we choose to think and discern carefully about the both the positive and the negative effects before coming to a decision or acting upon a decision, then we would already know somehow of the outcome. On the other hand, if we choose to just "go with the flow", or, as they say "que sera, sera", then, we definitely would have no idea what to expect in the future. There are somethings, though that always remain unpredictable. Most especially things that deal with emotions. We can never predict or dictate what others should think or feel. That is the reason why when it comes to making decisions that would affect the feelings of another person, I make it a point to put myself in the shoes of the other before making that decision. That also makes it easier for me to understand and accept the reasons why certain unexpected things happen in my life.

I believe that it is the way of how we think, by this, we choose what path we should take. It could be for good or for bad, so we have to think and think to receive an answer. We also have to obeserve, learn from the mistakes we had from the past and do our best to not commit it again. We should always be ready for what future will bring to us, be strong and have faith always.