When you feel lonely,what will you do?
By anniewangyin
@anniewangyin (27)
China
October 26, 2007 9:25pm CST
Recently I always feel lonely.It seems that everything around me has nothing to do with me.Althtough I really want to care whatever happening around me!I want to be a friend of everybody's,but it is impossible.I know that no one can be perfect,no one can be satisfy all peopke around him.But I want to be such a person.That may be the mainest reason I feel bad and makes me feel lonely. But I don't know what to do then.Can you tell me what can I do to change my mind?
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13 responses
@marabdl86 (615)
• United States
28 Oct 07
Hmmm try starting a conversation. Don't worry about what other people are thinking of you and be the person you want to be. The only thing that's stopping you, is you! :) Open up to everyone and remember no matter how nice and kind you are you will always have that one guy who will not like you no matter what. DOn't let people like that deter you from your goal. Bst of luck my friend :)
@mansha (6298)
• India
27 Oct 07
Its amazing even I was asked this question recently that I hurt most because I want all the people to like me all the time and its a thing thats not humanly possible-for every person that likes you, there is one other erson that will dislike you-so may be its time to focus on yourself and may be love yourself for your own sake.
@abhijeetspeedo (4)
• India
27 Oct 07
firstly i will tell u that i am a person who cannot be lonely 4 a long time,its one of the worst situtation for me.my efficiency decrease greatly when i am alone.there was a time when i also felt that i am sitting between my friends but not invloved in the ongoing talk,i also felt that everyone should also be interested in talking with me.but in due course of time had changed my self probably both in making my talk more mature.It's not nesseary u always intervene in talk but should also listen,probably bcoz of this god has given us only one mouth and two ears.Hopefully this will help u.Take care
@wangzhuanxiaozi (56)
• China
27 Oct 07
When omly having my one people everytime, I an able to feel very lonly/. I will be lonly getting on the Internet coming to solve .
@hopejordan (3561)
• Australia
27 Oct 07
hi there anniewangyin
your not alone you can have jesus has your personal saviour he is the only way to the father when i feel like that i know that jesus is my friend and i am not alone.
god bless you and have a great day
@tendaheart2002 (495)
• United States
27 Oct 07
The way you feel is normal. Sometimes it is really hard to relate to something that doesn't involve you and that is okay. The best thing to do is stay positive and know that you do make a difference no matter how big or small. And that there is always someone thinking of you even when you think their not.We all feel lonely sometimes, just find something to do like go to a movie, find a craft that you like etc.Good luck!
@laurika (4532)
• United States
27 Oct 07
Yeah you are right , you cannot be friend of everybody, that is not possible.But you can find some good friends who you will trust and then you will realize you don't need to be friend with everybody , but also few good friends can make you happy too.If you feel lonely make something what make you happy.listen some music, dance, read book, make something what would cheer you up.
@dorisday1971 (5657)
• Philippines
27 Oct 07
Don't think negatively. That's one reason why you feel lonely. You cannot satisfy others if you don't believe in yourself first. look at the positive aspect of what you've done for others.
@benx22 (87)
• Philippines
27 Oct 07
i think, there always comes in our lives that we feel lonely. it's not that all the time we feel happy or something. it is on our loneliness that we can have time to think only about ourselves. that way, we can see what we miss, what me need or want.
when i feel lonely, i play the songs that would remind me those good ol'days with my friends. or play jigsaw on gaia. but if it isn't loneliness anymore but boredom, i would definitely call my friends and ask them to hang out somewhere else.
@dajiale (108)
• China
27 Oct 07
I am the most lonely one in my class,I do everything alone, but I never thought to change this. As it`s said that learn to be solitary you leanr to live! Why not to be alone? Not one can stop you from doing things you like, if you really want someone to talk to, one or two good friend are enough, who can listen to you every time you talk to them, and give you advice, then keep your secret. This is what friend do, and other things you must do them yourself! So, be alone when you want to get things done.
@irishblanca (34)
• Philippines
27 Oct 07
Loneliness is part of being alive. If we dont experience it, we will never appreciate happiness. The best thing for you to do, I believe, is to pray to God. Yes, people may comfort you, but nothing compares to the comfort that God can give you. You just need to call on Him, and He will be there to give you comfort. Second, dont try to please everyone, you cannot do that. That will only lead to further unhappiness. You dont have to be a friend of everybody. But you can choose friends who you think cares about you. In that way, it wont be easy for you to care about them too. Get in tune with your inner emotions and you will know what you want and what you dont.
@forgypeng (4)
• China
27 Oct 07
YOU CAN LISTEN TO THE MUSIC,read a book!you can also play sports to relax yourself!(i am sorry ,i am a chinese and my english is very poor!)