how long could you hide your feelings for a person?

Philippines
October 27, 2007 6:38am CST
do you think if you can't take the risk of being rejected, you would not say your feelings at all even if it's hurting you already?
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@sumitsonu (598)
• India
27 Oct 07
According to me you can hide your feelings for as long as you can, I made a best friend last October , and I love her like anything , but I have never confessed because I know that our relationship will not work , as it will never be approved by our parents , and it not the fear of loosing her , but the fear that in the process I might hurt her feelings so I hid everything from her , eventhough I know that she too loves me.
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• Philippines
28 Oct 07
how did you know that she loves you too?
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• India
28 Oct 07
her behaviour, her feelings everything says that , you know no one can hide feelings , and i can very easily guess others feelings , that is the best quality in me.
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@terrych (1227)
• United States
27 Oct 07
I think, this would depend on the person I have feelings for, but if it someone that I know and I hang out with, I think that the best is just go ahead and tell him about it... this life it is too short to risk be without the person you love because you think you can be rejected... I try to live everyday as it was the last one, because you never know if your are going to be here tomorrow!
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@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
1 Dec 07
For as long as I know my feeling will not be given a warm reception-why should I pour out my deep emotions to some one who would trumple over them like she is stepping over dirt?
@franziska (410)
• Italy
26 Nov 07
I've hidden my feelings for many years but not because I thought he could reject me, only because, at that time I thought I were too much young to have a boyfriend or similar. I preferred to tell nothing to him and I didn't tell anything also to my friends and parents. So it was a feeling exclusively mine, a tresure hidden only in my heart.
@zhille (17)
• Serbia And Montenegro
1 Dec 07
I can hide my feelings for a very very very long time...I've been hurt a lot, not in love, but in life, and I learned not to trust people a lot. I have a thick wall around me, only a few people ever "torn it down". I suck at love and only had one GF... But when I love someone as a person I just can't hide it...I am very physical with my girl friends, If I like them, I like to hug them, hold them, pet them on he head when they say something stupid :) I just need to be close to someone and it's impossible to hide that, at least in my case. Nice question, made me think a lot.
• Canada
3 Nov 09
yeah im doing that now. it sucks in one way, but it's also great bc i won't have to lose his friendship. bad side: it's eating me up inside&&i want him more.
@aissar (414)
• Malaysia
6 Nov 07
I can't hide it forever. But for me, if she's really worth it, then I'll prepare to be rejected and confess.
@google88 (77)
• China
5 Nov 07
Perpaps it is ! But what you have done should never make you feel any regrets!