Oh it's sad to belong to someone else....

By the time you decide that you belong to someone, any one trying to get at you belongs to someone else and he /she is NOT YOURS. If you tried to jump into the arms of this person, you are the one to blame because the person is not yours period! Many marriages are rocked to pieces because many couple have this mind set of having someone but imagining that the real person is yet to come!!!

nope I haven't lolz all my crushes do not like me

I never experienced that. Its because when I am in a relationship, I close my eyes with other women. I always try to be faithful with my partner and make the most out of our relationship. Because I believe that for sure, along the way there would be someone who is better than my partner. But I always keep in mind that when I courted her, she is special in her own way.

I believe that it is never easy being in that place, I know that it is always hard to leave someone whom you love and also it is hard to let go of the chance to be with someone whom you learned to love. But for me, I think that to avoid this, we must focus ourselves to the present relationship that we have, give our best to make things work. And be faithful to him/her.

Um. Ok a/ I don't think you ever "Belong" to anyone. and 2/ If the person you're going out with isn't the right one then why are you with them? I've never experienced this because I've never belonged to anyone as I am an individual soul. And if I'm going out with someone and realize he's not the right one, we break up. That only makes sense.

No I haven't experienced it yet because to be honest I don't want to belong to anyone , it rally hurts when the person you love leaves you , so its better I stay single and happy.

It is sad, sure. But if somebody belongs to somebody, normally she does not notice other men. If she notice other men, it means that she does not belongs to him anymore.

It's sad when that happens. I've seen it with friends. If your not happy in your current relationship then maybe you should break up and move on. It's more to do with personal wants then destiny. If you want happiness then you have to seek it out.

yes i did, when i'm still with my 8 yr bf, and that's the time i met my hubby, good thing my bf and i broke up and so hubby and i get to know each other well and become us and get married.

Once I had made my decision to my spouse, I never regret for it. I will look that my spouse is the better one than else. Don't worry, if you had a problem with your spouse, just make sure you have a good communication with him/her. Love is to share, never give up. ^_^