What Would You Change About Yourself?

Aww--don't fret...I'm a reclusive hermit myself...LOL...I do go out everyday, say maybe go to the library, grocery shopping, etc... just to get the sense of being with people....but I've been a loner since way back, and feel very comfortable alone, maybe that's due since I grew up pretty much alone, and yes, when I was younger I did feel and was lonely, but my aloneness I think is what sparked a lot of my creative endeavors that I'm still involved with today...so in some ways it was an asset now when I think of it...Would I change that characteristic of preferring to be alone??....NOPE--Some people are the exact opposite..they hate being alone and always have to be with people, but maybe that's because they don't feel good about themselves --sometimes one discovers a lot about themselves when they are alone, and many might not like what they feel then. I have gotten a lot more "socialable" though in the past few years. In fact, this Wednesday I'm invited to a Halloween get together with my friend down the block and her get togethers are always a blast

If I had to change something about myself I would definately wan to have the desire or learn to pay more attention to detail!! I am a very laid back person, and I let the house become a total mess before I clean, or let things get way too out of control before I change anything! My life would be much easier if I would pay attention more often and actually finish more tasks I begin!!

I think I am a procrastinator and slob. And a workaholic. I would like to get going in the day, get stuff done, and pay all of my bills and be able to live off the income of just my hubby and myself. One job for me. I do not know how or when I will get there. If I ever got de cluttered, I would be able to keep the house clean, but there are some things that go on that prevent it at this time. I have to work two jobs to keep our heads above water, and I am just too tired to be neat. As far as being a loner, my son's gifted teacher from junior high would say you are probably a dreamer, and that there is nothing wrong with that, and that the world needs more dreamers, and thinkers.

I think if there is something you'd want to change about yourself you could. If it's physical, there is a lot of stuff, besides surgery, to fix that and if needed the resort of surgery. If it's mental, that is also something you can change. It's not easy, but you are who you are and you make yourself who you are. So all you have to do is make yourself someone else. So I'm happy with who I am. I made myself this way.

First one is my loneliness, I want to share with anyone, but I never found a way to talk to them. So I keep lonely, and I will always lonely, I don`t want to change it any more. Second one is my shyness, I have try to defeat it, but I lose eveytime. I knwo the problem is I have few chance to face it.

Being introvert and stubborness. I want to cure those two. Because it reflects to one's personality. Shyness is the main factor..why i did not succeed in my calling. I cannot sing in front of a thousands. I could not share my voice to the world because of my shyness. Stuborness drives away alot of people around you. Thats what i want to change in my life. Well i tried ..and will still try.

I would change reacting quickly after a stressful situation instead of taking a step back and reevaluating things. I am so bad about doing that. I am working on getting better about it, but it is a slow process.

My patience. I am not a very patient person and often get irritated easily, sometimes even at the smallest things.

If I could change one thing about myself I would change the fact that I sometimes don't speak up for myself..or others until I am angry. If I have a difference of opinion I something keep my belief's to myself to avoid a conflict. But when I finally do speak up sometimes I blow...

I like this question. Especially since one biggest "flaw" has been a HUGE problem in my family the last week or so. If I could change one thing about myself it would definitely have to be my chronic depression. I have been dealing with it since I was 12 and it effects everything in my life. I would LOVE to know what life is like without having depression such a big part of it.

Hello! I grew up having people doing things for me. In short, i'm very dependent to others, my parents and my family. I'm used to having other people organize my life for me, plans things for me and I would just say 'yes' or 'no'. Now i'm like that to my hubby too, I just wait for him to decide and plan things for us which is one working. So right now, the one thing that I would want to change about myself is being too dependent on others. I'm starting already, little by little, it's hard but I know I can do it. I just have to set my mind into it and believe that I can do it. Goodluck to me! *smile* ciao! c",)

i would love to change my laid back attitude and the laziness in me. bad boy me. smiles, love , apple.

I would change my Myopia. I hate glasses!

i would say my way of spending money. i don't normally save money. i just spend it as much as i can and buy things that i do believe is important but it comes to a point that i don't have anything left for myself. though i love my family, i pity myself when it comes to that.

What I want to change is that my being negative thinker. I am sometimes overpowered by my mind being negative at things that I want to try but afraid that maybe I won’t make it right. My close friend is always encouraging me to just go for it whenever I have something in mind that I want to do. Maybe that’s one thing I want to change especially that I’m also out of school and will enter the career world, I should really be a positive thinker so that whatever comes my way, I have the confident to take it.

I would definitely change my temper. I'm short tempered. I've managed to control it in the sense that people around me don't really know. But it affects me because I bottle it and I wish I could change that and let certain things be.

I would like to be more assertive, less cynical and to spend less time thinking about things I can't change. LOL. I'm a pretty happy person but I would like to be stronger and more confident. I also like to be by myself and I really like that I allow myself not to feel bad about that but at the same time I would like to make my time count a little more....to achieve something and make something of myself, to contribute something valuable to the world, not something huge but just some little something.

To be honest , one thing which I would like to change about myself is my shyness , I am very introvert type, I find it very difficult to interact with people , but once started it is easy going, the other thing which i would definitely change is that I tend to believe in people very fast which has already made me suffer many times.

well basically my friend,right now in my life i am really happy and i dont think i would change anything,maybe have a little more time for myself but that will come in time when all my babies go to daycare.

for me i want to change my self because im little bit childish mind, too much spending in material things, im also shy person specially if there is a party i just like to sit alone than to talk with anyone who is not close to me like my friends:-)