is he leaving me?

I'm afraid you've been played. Either he was hoping you wouldn't find out & he could keep you on the side or he's moved on & didn't want to bother telling you. Your better off in the long run if you move on, he's not worth the effort.

I think your bf is so irresponsible. He broke his promise. That kind of people is so mysterious. I think you need to find something or do something that can help yo ur problem.

I am sorry to hear you are going through this. I would contact him on facebook and demand he explain his actions. As you have already been told he is not worth your tears if he does not have enough respect to be honest with you and to contact you. It doesn't make it any easier I know but you are a good person and deserve better then him.

You poor thing! That sounds simply awful! Obviously not talking to him and being able to find out what is going on is driving you mad. I know it would drive me mad! I think it's a little obvious that h'es jsut being immature and instead of having the respect to tell you that it's finished, he's acting like a spoilt teenager and is just ignoring the problem. He really isn't worth your time or tears. Personally, I would send him a message on facebook telling him that if he doesn't get in contact within a time span, you are assuming it is over. You can do so much better than this. He's not worth it!