where can i find a private fianancial lender!!!

First off, try to get the loan through your bank. If not, you can try another lender. If youhave a home you can borrow against trya company like ditech.com. Try to stay away from the non-bank lenders if possible as they charge an obsecene interest rate. Try to hang in their! Pay as much as you can on your bills and cut back on expenses if you can. Many companies will work with you if they know you are going through hard times and there are some local organizaions that will help you pay certian bills.