How to act normal when you fall in love with your friend
By animegirl334
@animegirl334 (3263)
United States
October 29, 2007 7:18pm CST
How do you act the same like you always do around a friend you like? Now that I like this guy I'm friends with, I don't know what to do. I just get tongue-tied when I see him and can't think of anything to say. It's awkward. We had more fun when I didn't get all nervous. Any one share my pain?
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@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
30 Oct 07
wow, it is hard to be around and act normal... but you know what, try your best to be like what you used to do. If you keep nervous when you see him then he will know that you are in love with him and then thing change. If he loves you back then it is ok, but if he doesn't then you will get all the pain alone. Love is hurt so be careful. I used to fall in love with my friend too but it turned out that he loved me too; however, it never work between us cuz I dont want to break up all the longer friendship. I just tried to be normal and acted that I never fall in love with him... I didn't mean to tell you to stop loving your friend but it is just my story :)... I wish you all the best...
hey, try to find out if he loves you or not; if he does then no more wait ok? you have to tell him before it is too late.
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@mango_nectar (309)
• United States
30 Oct 07
I am in a similar situation right now. I have a really good friend that I absolutely love spending time with. We get along really well, enjoy lots of the same things, and in general we just have an amazing time when we're together. We would make a really good set of friends. But to complicate things, I like him as more than a friend, but I'm pretty sure that he doesn't feel the same way about me. It makes it hard for me to hang out with him, because I can't help but feel a little bit sad that this is all we'll ever have, that it will never be fully what I want it to be. But at the same time, I don't want to lose him as a friend, so I don't want to talk to him about it and make him uncomfortable or awkward...
So really I don't have any advice for you, but I can share in your pain. And hopefully someone here will give good advice that will help us both...