Is there anyone or anything you can not easily forget?
By colour2007
@colour2007 (22)
China
October 29, 2007 10:22pm CST
My grandfather died yesterday afternoon. I thought I would accept it calmly. After all my grandfather is very old. I never thought I would burst into tears in the office. All the night, his face appeared in front of me again and again and I woke up again and again.
I don't know whether I will forget my grandfather soon. I fact I think of him more than I ever did when he was alive.
During our life journey, there is always someone or something we are deeply attached to and feel hard to put down. But of course you have no choice and have to set it aside and never touch it. How to face it and deal with it? Is there anything or anyone you can not easily forget?
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@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
30 Oct 07
I think it is natural, since we'll miss our loved ones.
Time can only tell and heal your misery, as of now, I would suggest that you think of those happy moments you're together and forget about his departing. You've said it already, he's old. He already spent most of his life here, now it is time for him to rest and be in peace. We'll all come down to this, just accept reality and live your life on his expectations.
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@carrieheng (39)
• Australia
30 Oct 07
i am SO SO SO SO SO SORRY to hear that... it is really a very very sad thing...
well, i do have someone that i can't forget like at all... of course some of them will be my family.. and there is this guy i used to had a crush on for like years.... he treated me like dirt... he is horrible looking,nerdy,poor,short and everything bad u can think of but i love him so much... sadly he dont love me at all... he hardly treat me as a friend where as i treat him like a king... how sad... i am already telling myself to hate him forever n ever n ever.... but i always dream of him.. in reality i hate him... but i always dream of him and it is always a sweet dream... i guess DEEP DEEP inside me... i cant forget him... at all....
@colour2007 (22)
• China
9 Nov 07
Never fall in love with those who don't care for us at all. What you should do is forget him as soon as possible and seek your new life. In fact what makes you reluctant to leave is not the guy, but the passing years. Cheer up, and you will find life is so beautiful.
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@Nivek13 (124)
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30 Oct 07
ooh that's sad.. very sorry for it.. what we got to do is to pray for your grandfather colour.. don't worry your grandfather is happy right now.. someone i will never forget is my parents... because they are the ones who took care of me, make me go to school,.. they ofcourse loved me..c: i love my parents so much.. someone i will also not forget is my girlfriend.. even though we are still both young i know that our relationship will be fine till we grow older each day.. i will also not forget my friends who have helped me in my problems or difficulties.. they also treat me like there brother.. oh i forgot of course my brothers i will never forget them also for they taught me how to be brave, caring, loving, responsible and etc... well these persons are the ones who love and cared for me..
@blueunicorn (2401)
• United States
30 Oct 07
colour, I am very sorry for your loss.
I can't really give any advice on how to deal with it, but please be sure to seek out help if you find that you need it.
There is one person that I find I cannot forget. This is a former foster son of mine. He is still alive, but my husband and I had to give him up because we just couldn't give him the pychological care that he needed. I feel guilty a lot of times, thinking if I had just tried harder it could have been different.
Each of us grieves in our own way. Do you have pictures of your grandfather? Maybe you can make a collage of the pictures to remember him by. I hope some of what I have said helps at least a little!
@colour2007 (22)
• China
9 Nov 07
Thank you. I am much better now. I feel sorry for you and I hope you can walk out of it soon. There are many things in the world we can not change. What we should do is live on bravely and happily.
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