what will you do if you good friend's boyfriend loves you?
By jessicafri
@jessicafri (30)
China
9 responses
@newzealtralian (3930)
• Australia
30 Oct 07
Um, no worries here about that, but had same prob in past. I told him no go and when she found out, she yelled at me and asked why he wasn't good enough for me. Hhhmm, she is a former friend now! lol.
@jessicafri (30)
• China
31 Oct 07
What do you mean? You loves your friend's BF? And the friendship between you break out?
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@newzealtralian (3930)
• Australia
31 Oct 07
Sorry, I didn't explain that very well. He was friends with both of us but liked me. I was very close to another guy at the time as well as respecting my friends feelings. Turns out I couldn't win either way! I didn't mean to make it sound as though I was into him, cos I wasn't, beyond just hanging out.
@jessicafri (30)
• China
1 Nov 07
It's not easy to be in love with two people at the same time. And the result is not good in most of the cases.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
30 Oct 07
Very tricky question that. But I have been in a situation like this earlier and I did date the guy....the guy told my friend about the situation before we dated...she was upset but not for too long till she saw that we had similar interests more than she had with him.
@jessicafri (30)
• China
2 Nov 07
You are right. If he is dishonest to your friend, he will be taht to you too.
@jessicafri (30)
• China
31 Oct 07
Finishing a period romance before we statt another section of romance. I appreciate his behavior very much. It seems taht the man made the decision for you. ^^
@cosmopolitan (1263)
• India
31 Oct 07
I had a similar situation.My best friend loved a girl and they were friends.Without knowing this I too use to mingle with her.She and her family happened to shift their residence and bought a new house near my plot.Thenceforth we use to got to college everyday and became close.My friend knew this and he was such a broad minded fellow that he paved us the way for a new relation.One day she proposed and I was taken by a bit surprise and only after that I came to know about the old relation.I adviced her and I was somehow able to restore her to my best friend.
@jessicafri (30)
• China
1 Nov 07
You are really lucky! As what you said, your best friend was a broad-mind people.
@eskay007 (72)
• Israel
31 Oct 07
In my opinion I think you should start by dissuading him by showing him the impossibility of such a relationship. And if he refused, then you need to discuss the issue with your friend. He may be a player trying to play a fast one on both of you.
@carrieheng (39)
• Australia
30 Oct 07
lets see.. if i love him like mad then that will be a big problem but if i got a tinty crush on him OR hate/dislike him.. then i'll ignore him.. because he is my goodfriend's boyfriend.. i cant betray my goodfriend.. it is against the law of FRIENDSHIP WITH CARRIEHENG.hehehehehe... but still.... thats me... some other b-iatch might just ignore the goodfriend and go with him... i've seen this kinda ppl...
@jessicafri (30)
• China
31 Oct 07
You must be a real friend, and I think friend is more importhant than lover in your heart. Those who are your good friends will be very lucky.
@jessicafri (30)
• China
31 Oct 07
Maybe you are right. But we should consider the result. It will hurt friend. Be in hesitant...
@jessicafri (30)
• China
31 Oct 07
If the man tell you frankly that he loves you, there'll be no problem. But if he only do something to close you deliberately without telling the truth, how can you reject him?
@jessicafri (30)
• China
31 Oct 07
It's not easy to tell good friend that the man she loves don't love her. The most hurt her is that the woman be loved is you, her good friend. There are less people can accept this fact.
