If in love, would u prefer to be with your friends as well?
By sang2k2
@sang2k2 (1833)
India
October 30, 2007 4:17am CST
hi friends,
If your are in relationship,Would u go out with your friends as well? I mean that do u like to mix your friends and love together while you are out to party or on a picnic?Do u prefer your friends to be present when you are with your aprtner?does your partner likes it.
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6 responses
@carrieheng (39)
• Australia
30 Oct 07
i would really love to go out with my boyfriend n my friends too.... i wish we can hang out together... but actually.. if i have a boyfriend that do not know my friends.. i will try not to introduce my friends to him because god knows... he might fall in love with one of them... i use to have a boyfriend who likes to mix around and i have this really pretty friend... i never mention about my pretty friend to him.. never want to introduce them to each other... i dont know.. i can get jealous easily probably... i might feel insecure maybe... but if my friends already have their boyfriend and maybe they are like any average people then i dont mind bringing my boyfriend with me and join my friends for lunch... it will be more more more fun... would love it.
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@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
30 Oct 07
Yes, I see no reason why you should stop seeing your friends when you fall in love. If you want tos pend time with your girl friend, you could always ask your friends if it is ok if you will bring her along with you so that your friends would know her. You should not stop from growing even if you already have your girlfriend. You could introduce her to your friends.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
30 Oct 07
We do not have such close friends and generally we do not like anyone to be so close. Familiary breeds contempt!! May be we go out for picnic with my family and that of friends family. We do not have dance culture and kissing culture and therefore a moderate distance is maintaiend and no untowards incidents occur. The friendship is purely to share, undetand each othe and at the most may conclave at buying certain items together.
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@krishnaprasadah (64)
• India
30 Oct 07
great discussion. But Im searching for a friend to do like that not yet got. I think going out and all is not a wrong thing and no one comment on it. When I see people going out like paries picnics I too think that to have friends like that and go out with them to paty and picnics etc. I pray god to fullfil my desire as soon as possible
@carol_m (709)
• Philippines
31 Oct 07
Even if I have a bf, I still go out with my friends. I don't see any reason why I shouldn't. But I must admit, I never go out with my bf and my friends, even for a party or picnic or whatever. That would divide my attention; my bf wouldn't like it and my friends wouldn't like it either.
@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
30 Oct 07
Hi, for I really dont like mixing friendship with love. My fiancee also does not support that idea and that makes the two of us. Friends can only come maybe once in a month and his friends are also my friends because we were in same college same class. The friends also understand that we need our time alone.