Internet Chat Rooms: Are We Missign the Point?

India
October 28, 2006 6:58am CST
In my short life, after years of talking too much, I’ve come to realize that if one is always speaking, one never listens. If you never listen to others, well, you’re limiting your access to a lot of knowledge and information. Recently, after much deliberation I thought I’d check out what the world of Chat Rooms is like. People talk to each other by text, voice, and web cam. This is a really big phenomenon; I wanted to see what all the fuss is about. I expect there are many chat rooms where people with similar interests get to know each other, and share their perspectives on various aspects of life. These are great, much cheaper than telephones, and multiple, random people can chat to one another simultaneously. But I speak the truth, and my preconceived ideas about mindless gossip from jaded humans were sadly affirmed as I arbitrarily checked chat rooms that supposedly discussed important subjects. It seems some people are just very bored, and want to be cool and swear on-line, insulting others, and giving this area of information technology a bad name. I think a lot of people are using the rooms solely for personal conversation that contextually no one else can understand. I went to a chat room about religion, and then to one about tattoos and it seemed like the same people were talking. Most of the conversation didn’t even touch the supposed subject matter. It was definitely a disenchanting experience but hopefully with more research I hope to come across some serious rooms where the true intent of the creators has come to fruition. I guess it’s good that bored people in our technological society have others to talk to. It means depressed adolescents may feel more connected to others and not so alone in the world, maybe even having a positive effect on a possibly suicidal youth. But, I do feel this nonsensical chitchat is a sign of our next generation’s apathetic view of present reality in our postmodern culture. When reading the text from a supposedly religious discussion, and hearing graphic use of derogatory terminology, I really have to wonder about the present spiritual beliefs of my culture. I’m a true believer of the concept that technology is here to further the consciousness of humanity. Computers and the Internet can help bring all of us in the world together, thus evolving our society to the next level. After looking at chat rooms, I feel there is a need to integrate more wisdom and compassion into our ‘new world’ generation. Having the technology is great, but it is only one half of the equation. To make the Internet work properly, I think we need to instill the same faith we have in science, into a faith that encompasses the actual creators of the information and communication tools-humanity itself. We seem to realize that we can invent many great things, but it looks like we’re missing out on the great truth: that we ourselves are part of, and made of something great in itself: Life. (Existence!)
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@dorypanda (1601)
28 Oct 06
Wow! What a brilliant lesson to learn at such a young age. :) I know some people who are over 50 who haven't learnt anything near that much. I agree with you, you do learn far more by keeping quiet, my Grandad always used to say 'God gave you only one mouth, but two ears', I think that says it all really. As for chat rooms, I'm afraid I think the majority I've been in have been absolute rubbish, I've noticed a lot of chat room people are teenagers (very immature ones), and idiots or just people looking for a boyfriend or a girlfriend. You are obviously far too mature to be in these chat rooms, why not set one up yourself? That's if you're technically minded. I hope you find some people who deserve to befriend such a well rounded young man, such as yourself. :D
• India
28 Oct 06
thank you dear friend.. i appreciate your comment.. keep posting and btw when did you join mylot and are you enjoying????
• India
28 Oct 06
is my speech that boring that no1s responding to it?????
• India
30 Oct 06
thank you friend for posting.. you can always come in back and continue with the topic..
@Tanya8 (1733)
• Canada
28 Oct 06
Interesting and insightful post. I feel that I have learned a lot from bulletin boards, but that the chat format almost sets people up to have meaningless exchanges. With the boards, there is a chance for people to think before replying, and organize what they want to say in a coherent way. With chat there is pressure to type something quickly, and when there are a number of people on at once, the conversation flows awkwardly with lots of non-sequiturs. It's nothing like chatting in person, because we miss out on verbal and facial cues that tell us when one person is finished, and when it would be appropriate to add something. I belonged to a book-club site, which has some fantastic discussions on the boards. The host even managed to get some of the authors to join in, but as soon as we tried to chat, the quality of the discussions would plummet, and I often felt embarrassed for all of us.
• India
28 Oct 06
you are absolutely right tanya... and your belirf is 100% true in case when we chat with to strangers a flower for you...:)