what?

United States
October 30, 2007 4:39pm CST
i pour my heart out, admit life is stinking, and the discussion gets deleted? i wonder what other ones have been deleted of mine. but i apologize to you all who responded as i'm sure it's messed up your STARS stats...so strange! so oh well. i almost don't want to post that life IS better...don't want to get deleted!! hmmmmm..... ok, well i'll be back in a bit. do have SOME news to report!! haha!
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8 responses
@misheleen73 (6037)
• United States
30 Oct 07
It's ok, just one of the many reasons that this place stinks sometimes. The people should not have such a big influence on what gets deleted. They really need to pay more attention to the substance of the discussion rather than just the title. Oh well, I am not worried. They can delete whatever they want. No skin off my back. I do hope though all is getting a little better for you !!
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• United States
5 Nov 07
i just don't get it, i didn't cuss or anything did i? oh well. and one of my other friends posted a goodbye that she was going to be out for the next week, and it's still up? WEIRD!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but i want to tell you things ARE better, but i don't want to post a discussion on it. it'll get erased, HAHA! guess it's easier for us to talk about not so personal issues??? i dunno anyway though... but things ARE better thanks to all the hugs, prayers and all the hopeful wishes and vibes that were sent my way. this month is A LOT more positive, and december will be even better. i thank you again!!
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• United States
6 Nov 07
I guess the powers that be here just didn't like yours that day. Maybe it was "that" time of month for them...lol. Glad to hear you're doing better, you know you're always in my thoughts & prayers girl !! (((hugs)))
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• United States
6 Nov 07
you're just TOO awesome you know that!!!!
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@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
27 Nov 07
For a discussion to get deleted someone had to mark it abuse. There is no other way mylot could check the thousands and thousands of discussions and response that are posted everyday. When they get an abuse report they fisically check it out and if they agree it's abuse or if a rule in the guidelines got broken, they will delete it. What I don't understand is why people mark something as abuse. This site is supposed to be fun, and so what if someone breaks one of the guideline rules. What's the big deal. Why bother reporting it. I don't take this site that serious. If I see someone posted a discussion that is against the guidelines I just ignore it and don't bother to respond. I don't rate it at all.
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• United States
13 Feb 08
yes but when you post a discussion about something in your own personal life, and violated nothing, why is that abuse? sneaky sneaky, someone is sneaky, but it hurt when i am nothing but goody on here. i don't talk about politics or call anyone dumb for their discussions, i don't argue with anyone, ya know? so i was hurt....cuz it made no sense....so i sat wondering....it's dumb, and it's over now, but i HAD to gripe about it ya know!!
@usmcsgtwife (4997)
• United States
6 Nov 07
I know what you mean, I have had a few of my discussions get deleted for reasons I have had them get deleted and then see the same discussion stated by someone else and theres not get deleted, it just does not make sense
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• United States
6 Nov 07
i know! didn't you have 'goodbye' in your title from a week ago? and it's still here right?!! that's just what someone mentioned as to why mine was deleted, but what, for the word GOODBYE??? did i curse, or say something offensive? i have not started discussions that are racey, or RACIST...but there are those out there, and all i was doing was apologizing as i may be away, and was informing MY friends of current stress issues?? you read it! SO weird!!! haha!! thanks for reading this!!!
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
11 Nov 07
which one is that? is that about your financial problems? oh my I did respond to that one and no it won't surprise me or bother me if my response is gone. but really why would such a discussion got deleted? I guess we can't be that honest in mylot anymore
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• United States
12 Feb 08
haha now that i haven't been on in months...i can't remember, but i still did NOT violate any mylot terms, know what i mean? sad. thnks for responding my dear!! you're great!
• United States
11 Nov 07
Well at least those of us who are your friends still got to read it, even if it is gone now. Sorry!!
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• United States
12 Feb 08
AW! ty for that kind remark! you're so sweet! thnx for responding!!
• India
12 Nov 07
I was worrying about this some time ago, why some of my discussions were deleted like this when i dont post any links to websites or to my blogs..etc,,but still have it deleted.. And now i got the solution to it. Take care and have a good day:)
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• United States
12 Feb 08
you got the solution to it? what's the solution my friend?
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
30 Oct 07
Does not surprise me Sweetie do not worry about me loosing anything now you know why I am not here that much anymore I hope it is good News Sweetie Love and Hugs
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• United States
5 Nov 07
i'm fine now. i'm just mad, and i now see why you get so furstrated...cuz it's total nonsense. see my response to the lil monkey up above.....we're doing fine. i'm just not going to write out anymore if my probs!! stupid though huh???
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
31 Oct 07
Very typical of mylot - I don't worry about the number of discussions I post or answer freckle - its all good! Hope you're ok my friend HUGS :)
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• United States
5 Nov 07
i guess i shouldn't worry about all that either, it's BS and whatever right? just boggles me though. see the response i wrote to the others above here. we're okay now. by the power of God I tell ya!! thanks for all the love!!!