crush or love

It takes lots and lots of time to understand a person and to fall in love with him. Love and having a crush on someone are entirely two different things.

Well when I met my husband, I didn't have a crush on him. I didn't just drool over the site of him and get weak in the knees. After we fell in love, he could get me weak in the knees easily. But I still didn't drool. To love someone is an emotion based on trust, communication, companionship, patience, putting that person first. A crush is a want, a desire and is not based on even really knowing the person you have the crush on. Haven't you ever met someone that you just thought was soooooooo hot, and when you got to know that person you found that it was only skin deep, and you really didn't have anything in common or anything to talk about. Although you may have a crush on a good friend, and that could develop into love.

your question is quite confusing but to my own underestanding love is a commitment but crush is just a desprate feeling of having him and afterwards it just fades away.

hi crush generally develops by seeing the external things like the looks, appearances being cute and even at times by the attitude but love doesnt sees any things as it juz happens like the person may not be good looking or smart or has good attitude but may touch your heart. love is both sided possibility but crush is almost one sided...

crush probably is about liking someone and love is about living for sum1

i had a crush on my boy friend ever since i met him.... 10 years later i proposed to him.... we will be gettin married next year... love and crush go together,

crush and love goes to get her(together)

The way i see it, Love should be crushed. LOL. Sorry Ivz, hehehe. =p But seriously, the 2 are and always be separated. Its up the person to differentiate the two.