How to be a good mother?

To be the best mother to your little girl is to be attentive and loving, and being concerned. The doctor won't mind if you are overly concerned. And the doc will give you just about any advice you ask for when it comes to being a parent. There are also many support groups online as well as chat rooms that you can ask questions and get advice. You will notice that your daughter has different cries, such as when she is hungry, or wants a diaper change, or just wants to cuddle. And sometimes it is as simple as giving an extra pat on the back to make sure she is done burping. Follow your instincts. And if your instincts say go to the doctor, go to the doctor. If they say, cuddle, then do that. With time you will learn new tricks, and many are willing to teach you, don't be afraid to reach out for advice.

It sounds like you are a good Mom. You are doing your best to find out why she cries and taking her to the doctor when you think she is sick. There are times they cry and we can't figure it out right away. My daughter use to cry a lot and there seemed no reason. But it ended up being colic. She also had problems with formula with iron in it. Actually as soon as I switched her from formula to milk that stopped. But it took a long time to find the answer. Don't think your in any way not a good Mom because you have not found the cause yet. Your a great Mom in my book because you are caring enough to look for the cause. It could be teething and sometimes that can show symptoms as though they have a cold. Just keep doing what your doing. If your feeling overwhelmed see if you can get someone to care for your daughter while you get a break. Take care, best of luck and god bless.

I am a mother of three little girls the oldest is almost 7 years and the youngest is 6 months. Babies cry. It is very normal for them to wake up a lot at night. They usually wont start sleeping all of the way through the night until after they are a year old, or off of the bottle. Being a new mom coinsides with being a little spastic with the "colds". My first child got my lipstick on her cheek...and I was sure it was a rash. No worries, this too will pass. Learn to relax and enjoy your little angel while she is little because they grow so fast!

i've been through that too. but now my baby is 21 month already and now he is teething. he cries in the middle of the night maybe because of pain he has with his swollen gums. take it easy. dont blame yourself when the baby cries and you cant let him stop. the things i did when my son was that young i have a mobile with round up tune so i just round that up again and again and i think the music eases him. then he will keep quiet but if the music is over he will start crying again so i have to round it up again. music makes kids at ease. i also massage his legs just to tell him and show him that i am at his side. you dont have to worry, you are a good mother and keep it up. hugs

She also has feeling,you should always take care of her emotions,bescause she can't express,you should pay attention to!

Motherhood is something you grow in to. At three months old with my first one I was the same way. Every sniffle we ran to the doctor and every cry I thought was for a bottle. You learn soon enough. Just go with your instinct and it will all work out.

always check if she is in a warm place and well feed. and make sure she is safe and happy.

nanclie, i am sorry for the inconviniecies created by your three months daughter. atimes children are of the habit of crying all night, some may fail or refuse to eat. as a man i don't like being disturb that way. and i don't know the reason why they cry like that. even if you give them food, they will still cry and cry. please if you discover the reason or remedy notify me.

its a good and challenging job,it is proud to be a mother,mostly child wants the sheler of her mother,so give her your love and affection toomuch.

I dunno eventhough i am already a mom of my own. All i know is to fulfill all your tasks as a mom to the best of you can. We can not avoid commiting mistakes. But what important most is, we keep on trying to be the best mom we could be.

In my opinion ,she must know how much freedom and limit should be given to his children!

I think all new mothers worry just like you are. When I had my first child I was always in the doctors surgury, thinking there was something wrong with my baby. Don't worry you will get used to what your baby is crying for in time. Just relax and take it easy you don't want to wear yourself out too early. Sometimes babies cry because they have wind, are wet, are hungry or maybe too hot or cold. I am sure you will get the hang of it. Good luck.

Hun, I honestly think you are being too hard on yourself. All of the things you've listed only tells me that you ARE a good mother. You're attentive and you respond to your baby, that's what is important. Motherhood is one of the most challenging, yet rewarding jobs that I have ever encountered. You learn something new every day! I'm learning things with my two month old that I never knew with my daughter who is now eighteen months old. Take a deep breath and relax.. as long as you give your baby the necessities in life, she has all that she needs.

being a new mum is not easy, just like me ,i have two babies(twins), they premature, they need even more care than normal term baby. baby crying during the night quite normal, maybe they had nightmare, or they felling cold or hot, did you check your room temperature, did you feed her every 3-4 hours. try to play a lot before she sleeping, so that she felling a little bit tired then sleep well. hope she is sleeping well soon!