Do you believe superstition?
By cindytao
@cindytao (38)
China
November 1, 2007 1:29am CST
Last night I had a nightmare which woke me up with a start from deep sleeping.It's so strange,I keep dreaming of my grandfather died last year these days.I felt very sure he has died already in my dream and still can remember the funeral of that day very clearly,but he still stayed with me,which made me feel so scared.
I'm not feel guilty for him in anything,as when he is alive I'm his most beloved grandaughter.But he is the first relative of mine passed away till now,I don't like this strange feelings and I'm a little timid about this kind of thing.
I don't know what should I do,if he is trying to tell me something(oh,my god,I'm so annoying) or it's just because I miss him so much which leads me to have a dream of him?
What do you think about it?Can you give me some good suggestions?
6 responses
@cindytao (38)
• China
1 Nov 07
About superstition,there are different versions from many countries.For example,some Englishmen believe there is no 13th Floor.English schoolchildren believe seeing a white cat on the walk to school is sure to bring trouble.To avert bad luck,they must either spit,or turn round completedly and make the sign of the cross.
@bhappy2 (327)
• Australia
1 Nov 07
These dreams must be very hard for you. I think you are still grieving for your grandfather and that you miss him still and so your subconscious mind brings him back to you when you are sleeping. Your grandfather is not trying to tell you anything, it is just a dream. Your first experience with losing someone that you love is always very hard and when you are young it is even harder. Don't be afraid of your dreams, just remember you grandfather and be grateful for the time you had together.
@cindytao (38)
• China
1 Nov 07
Thank you for your comments,maybe you are right.But I still cannot overcame this dread.Acutally I belive superstition a little,so I placed a pair of scissors under my pillow as my mother told me.As it's said this can prenvent nightmares.Thank you all the same.
@infoguy (210)
• India
1 Nov 07
Nothing to be scared..May be its because you have him in your deepest thoughts..You are missing him, somewhere in your thoughts he is still alive so you have dreamt about him..Dont be scared relax yourself and have a good sleep.
@hellboyonthenet (153)
• India
1 Nov 07
hello... im prince... well... thats good you took all the possibilities into account... im a practical and a religious person... Practical in the psychological aspect is very clear.Since your his beloved granddaughter... you must have been really fond of him... its the sub concious mind and the concious are seperated with a thought barrier.. when we sleep this wall kindof opens a gateway which allows these thought to flow with each other... this a thesis why many dreams are a inter mixed with memories of daily life and things that are present in our mind unconditionally without our knowledge...the day must have been hard for you when you where present there... religiously... it could be that your grandfather is trying to tell he wish he could have stayed a little longer to spend more time you... or he had to tell you something... "be strong im there"
@whdgren (1)
• China
1 Nov 07
Don't be so worried about. I have the similar experience with you. Some of my relatives or friends came to my dream. It did have some meaning.But you don't know now. Just wait for the moment come, and you will realize what the dream means. You will get the hints and you learn how to do.
I think it's not a bad thing for a person who can have this kind of feeling. It's amazing, I know.
