Like everyone you would have wanted to have a beautiful girl as your wife

Interesting! If I deny this...then I will be in trouble and if I say yes....then I will be like most of the fellows....LOL! Bala, for me inner beauty, character and nature were more improtant than her outer beauty. No doubt that my better half is beautiful. But when I was to make a selection, for me the above mentioned traits were more important than anything else. Because if a person is caring and good at heart....she would prove to be a good partner in life, instead the one who is outwardly beautiful but inwardly not caring or selfish...then the marriage will not sustain. We have been enjoying our married life for the past many years and hope we will continue to enjoy it. Very Good discussion indeed! Have a good day!

I'm not married, but i'm not like that either. Might be in my teenager days, i was like that, but now i'm looking deep. I don't wish to buy a book for its cover, i need content!

I don't know about everyone...but I know my husband was looking for someone who had a similar wavelength as his (well...he seriously would be thinking where he went wrong on that one..lol)..and looks weren't too important for him...presentable ..yes...but not beautiful. He has no regrets on that front (though I'm not the conventional Indian beauty and his mother thinks so too).

I think that having a beautiful wife is good. But it doesnt ensure the success of a relationships, of a marriage. There are things which are more important than this. Yes, physical attraction is the first thing that causes you to be interested in a person. But in the long run, it doesnt really matter at all. And once you value a person, the beauty of that person is multiplied 70 X.