In a dilemma between a 67 year old lover and 27 year old fiancee!!!!
By kwenge
@kwenge (2487)
Kenya
November 1, 2007 3:08am CST
Hallo people,
My friend is 26 years old. She has a fiancee and they are getting married in December and they love each other soo much. Now the problem is here, she has been seeing this man from different race for about 3 years and the guy is 67 years old. The 67 year old man was her former boss and he claims to love her soo much but the only thing that is keeping them a part is the race difference and age. What can she do? her fiancee is not aware of the affair.
5 responses
@saiwailaozei (363)
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20 Nov 07
oh ,my God.Although nobody can control his own emotion,i don't think what your friend are doing is right.As one's fiancee,she has responsibility for her fiance.
If she doesn't love her fiance any more,she ,at least,ought to tell him the truth.
When it comes to the old man,i wanna say love is love,don't care the race ,age and someting like it.
But firstly,your friend shoud make sure wheather he loves her with true heart.In addition,she should also check her own love to the man ,and avoid of impulse.
@saiwailaozei (363)
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20 Nov 07
thanks for your comment,my pretty friend.
wish you and your friend have a happy life.
@smacksman (6053)
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19 Nov 07
Classic scenario!
My advice?
Marry the old boy and keep him happy in bed and check out his will is in your favour.
Keep the fiancee as just that for the time being.
When the old boy pops his clogs, grab the money and the fiancee.
What am I saying!!! OLD BOY!!
He's just two years older than me and I'M NOT OLD!! haha
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
3 Nov 07
It is a real dilemma for this friend of yours. But I think that it is still better for her to get married to his young lover as they can share more of the same interest and hobby as they are of the same age. I am afraid that there will be a great gap between her and her previous boss as he is old enough to be her grandfather. Once her finacee is aware of this, he is sure to be mad at her. So it is better to keep him in the dark.
@annaclaudia (30)
• Italy
1 Nov 07
there are many couples with difference age. but i think that 40 years are too much. Between 20 years she is still a young lady hewill have 87 years, too may!
@saiwailaozei (363)
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20 Nov 07
Apart from what i said above,i wanna say that it's not the right reason for accepting one's love that one loves you ,spoils you and give you what you need.The only reason for love is just love feeling.
Maybe her fiance is not rich now,but it's not the point.If he love her, he will try to work hard and give her happy life she wants.
