Lovers

Friends can be lovers.but lovers can't be a good friends

I would prefer it that way but my husband does not think married people can be friends too.

Lovers can be friends and friends can be lovers. What is important is purity of love Sanctity of relationship and sincereity of purpose

I believe the best lover is also your best friend. A friend is someone who accepts you for who you are, has your best interests at heart, and treats you, and your opinions respectfully. They also see the fun side of you, besides your serious side. I wouldn't want anyone who loved me to be less of a friend. Ideally your lover should be your best friend, if not, then you don't have anything but a physical relationship, and not a true heart, mind, and soul connection...imho.

I also believe that my boyfriend is my best friend. I share everything with him, and those can be good and bad times. He's allways there for me. There's a serious part and there's a fun part where we can just have a good laugh and go out, just like I do with my other friends. Basicly, he's just like a friend only one I know even better and have affectionate feelings for in another way. When you aren't friends with your lover and can't share most things (there might be things you don't share, but I guess most of it for sure) there might be something wrong in your relationship. After your first crush is over, I guess you should realize if you want to spend the rest of your life together love is not enough; you have to be able to trust each other, know each other well and love each other a lot. What's your opinion on this?

it is very difficult to answer

I feel that a good step towards being ones lover is to be a friend wich in turn over time will become best friends for this is the person you are choosing to spend the rest of your life with and if one cannot give all one has to the relationship you may never get all you deserve from the bond that is being started so yes I feel you can be best of friends with your lover for that is the one person that should deserve to know you inside and out good or bad. Randy

Yes, my lover is my best friend.

I think so. My husband is my best friend

I don't know but i think your lover should be your best fnd..

Yes, lover is always best friend

Sure. Why not?

i think not. let your best friend never be your lover.. you have a big problem if he fells in love for you and after that you can look for another best friend

Yes ofcourse, Infact your lover has to be your best friend because I believe in any relationship love has to flow from friendship. You cannot love someone untill he/she is your friend

Why not? it will depends upon understanding.

Sure they can. I share everything with my gf. I wouldn't share some things with anyone else in the world.

yes i think so

A best friend can be a good lover. and A good lover will always be a good friend.

yes lovers have to be best frnds,...

Mabe,Im not sure.