Would you consider adopting a child that could possibly have a mental illness?

United States
November 1, 2007 12:19pm CST
One of my adopted children's biological mother is paranoid schizophrenic. My daughter is not. She is now 20 years old and expecting her first child. During most of her pregnancy she had considered giving her baby up for adoption and was working with a private adoption agency to find an adoptive couple. Because of her bio-mother's mental illness history there is a very small chance that her child could become schizophrenic. She has now decided to keep her baby, but while working with the adoption agency one couple after another after another said that they would not adopt her child because of the mental illness history. Although I do understant that not everybody would want to deal with a mentally ill child, I was really very surprised at how many people would not consider adopting this child for fear of having a child with a mental illness. Would you consider adopting a child that could possibly develop a mental illness?
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• United States
1 Nov 07
It would depend on if I felt I could really bond with the child. If I could really bond with the child I definitely would. Knowing that there would be good days and bad days and that we would have to be in counseling and such to cope. If there was not much of a chance of bonding I would feel that the child would be better off with a family that bonded better with them so that they could have the bond they needed to live a fulfilled life.
• United States
1 Nov 07
I would. My daughter's father is also paranoid schizophrenic. So far, my daughter shows no signs of this illness, but, it could appear at anytime in her childhood. I myself am bipolar. Also no signs yet of anything like this in my child. My condition is controlled by medication, and I am fine. Her father refuses medication. I was unaware of his condition until I was 4 1/2 months pregnant. If I had known that he had this condition, I believe I still would have chosen to have our child.