how do you miss someone?

Well, I can say that we are all made in different ways and I fully comprehend your saying that you are not necessarily cold, but you don't feel the way some others do. I have seen the most hospitable and warmest person behave the same way you do[even with her closest]. Only thing is that you have to get back to your routine,. Each person has his/ her routine and holidays are holidays.You do miss the extra noise, fun and company you had when this person was around but as I pointed out it is one's own routine and you have that much of detachment and maturity to carry on without thinking too much . I was just the opposite - Thirty three years back when my sister got married and left home I missed her for an inordinately long time. I missed my mother when she was not at home. I did not miss my father too much when he went away on official duty. It is worse when you do not have a full time activity that keeps you engaged throughout the day. Once you get married you get so used to having your partner and children around and I am lost when they go away for a small period too. With others, where your attachment is less it does not linger throughout the day.

Who wouldn't miss a loved one? When somebody close to me leaves for another place I miss the person by thinking i can't do now the things on my own like the way do them together. Like I miss a certain friend because i have nobody now to share my most kept secrets. It makes me so sad sometimes i have to cry to let it out. I don't think missing is just a waste of emotions, we feel it because we are only human who has feelings.

that is the feeling i hate...coz i cant do anything about it...i feel sad and sometimes, i cry...

I am the kind of person who would feel sad and miss the person close to me. I just cannot stay without missing my loved ones. Having said that, I respect your disposition and do feel that just because you do not miss the usual way doesn't mean that you don't care. Infact, you are more strong and confident. Thanks.

I just feel so lonely when I miss my love one. I feel like wanting to hug him and be with him. To do what we used to like malling, attending to mass, and dining. But I don't normally cry. I just feel empty inside.

Missing someone who is so close to me and whom I considered to be special is very normal and natural at all. As a human being I have emotions and feelings that;s why I misses someone because that someone is special and important to me. I tend to invest emotions to that person, and when that person goes away, of course I will really miss his/her presence. Though I feel empty, still I don't consider it as a waste of emotion, because for me it can never be a waste to think and miss the person whom I want to be with me. However of course I know how to accept the fact that he/she is far away from me. I just always hope to be with that person someday, sooner or later. The only thing that can make me get away from being empty is to communicate with the special person that I misses so much. To communicate in whatever way that I can do. That's the way I treat the "misses thing". :-)

well i just cant tell how do i miss someone but i do love my girl friend very much and i miss her since now i am away from her

I feel the loneliness during the first months or so, but I also get to hold it as time passes by. I know that they'll come back sooner or later, so I don't need to worry about it anymore. I got used to this since my father chose to work abroad, when we were still kids he always tells me to take care of my mom and two siblings. I'd cry whenever he leaves, but I have stopped thinking about it since I already got used of the situation!;)

I still keep it touch with a few friends I had from High School and it help to know that I still matter to them.

well to me,i really get to miss my love onces when they leave or move out,not me liveing,because i like traveling alot,so i can hadly miss one when am out.

Hi, Yeah, I definetly feel soo sad and empty for some days (depends on how close they are to me).... Yeah, i agree that there will be some people who wont have these kind of feelings they will just forget as soon as they are away from the person.....if we r feeling for such kind of people then its not worthfull....but i didn't mean that we should have the same kind of impression on every one....don't give up such a good quality....what i am suggesting is that just ignore/think less about ppl who are materialistic....

since i work far from my family and husband for 4yrs already i dont feel too much empty because we always have communication everyday but ofcourse there are times i really missed them specially when there is occasion like holidays and anniversaries but i dont cry anymore not the same the 1st time i leave them:-)

when you miss someone very much,what do you do?can you tell he you miss he?...so...you may phone the one you miss or you may go to his home to visit him...so...you may ask him to go out for you miss him or you may do nothing just miss him...when i am away from here,my friends want to say that they will miss me and i say i will miss they too.sometimes my husband goes to somewhere he says"i will miss you,dear" i like this and i love missing someone and being missed.LOL!i think so.

No one wouldn't miss the loved one.i can tell you that the problem is that we shoud change the missing to happy things,maybe you don't believe me ,but you can try .when you miss someone you also remeber the happy time ,you also feei happy,another ,no one is a cold person,we have mother,father,sistre,brother and other good good friends,but please don't forget that these people want you happy,i hope this is helpful