While I was shopping today...I saw the man who had sexually harassed me.....

Wow !! How scarey for you.I could not imagine how you must have felt...Very frightening episode to live through again in your mind..

I thought the man will get fired and you still keep your job. I find it strange that you got fired instead of him. It must be terrible for you to shop in the same store as him.

I would say you not to have put this in mylot because first of all you should not have been keeping this in your mind,then even if you see him why do you worry if he does anything just thrash his faceoff

Is that you in your Avatar? Because it sure doesnt look like you! Well all I can say Im glad your okay and made it home safe. No thankfully nothing like that has happened to me.

That's not a nice situation for you to be in. At least he didn't recognise you, or it might have been worse for you. As it is, I find it bad enough that you lost your job and he kept his in the first place. I can imagine how glad you were to get home and hope it doesn't play on your mind too much when you're out shopping again.

wow thats so scary hon,sorry you had to go through that.i couldnt even imagine how you felt,and how uncomfortable you felt.im sure you were glad to get home very fast.i would of been a nervous wreck if something like that happened to me.hope you are ok hon and i am thinkin of you.pattie

Strange, Did this happen in america.Had this been happened here he would not only have fired but would have been behind the bars.I wonder you did not take any action against him.Isn't there any redressal forums there.These matters should not be seen lightly and that's why molesters are being encouraged to repeat the crimes on innocent helpless women.Even now I think you can take neccessary action against him if it is not barred by limitation according to your laws.Better late than never,by taking action you are also helping so many victims of reported and unreported cases of harassment

Its scary for you i know. However, it can also be a way to show yourself how far you have moved on. When i casme upon my abuser years after the events, i was the adult to his child like sniveling and it empowered me tremendously blessed be

Hugs I am soooo sorry that happened to you!!! I don't know what I would of done if that happened to me other than turn around and thump him one. HOw are you doing? hows your necK?

It's crazy that you lost your job!! The law states that the victem is free from any form of retaliation!! Did you ever try to fight this?? As for answering your question. I saw my pediphile uncle at Walmart about a week ago. I hadn't seen him for years and am rehashing a LOT in my weekly group therapy session. So it was kinda akward...

I'm so sorry about that :( some guys are really whacked out. They have alot of mental problems they need to help trying to adjust. I'm glad you handled the manner like you did. I know alot of people that would have panicked in your situation. I can't beleive the guy had the guts to walk up behind you like that. it's just crazy how some people act. If you see him stocking you or anything call the police, although I don't really like them either. I personally would have sued your last job for firing you and not him. Goodluck :)

If that happens again and tried to abuse you , scream and shout and annoy him to everyone. (only if he comes close to you) And tell him to f*** off tell him to go away... It happened to my friend lastti,e and she was screaming and pointing to that man who harassed her and calling him a maniac and everything. Because she was so scared that this man might do it again. Be safe!

thats really scary indeed. I haven't been in the same boat but in aonther boat of the same category.. was sexually haraaed by my house maid for 2 yaers... She brought along a transsexual as well.. really bad experiences.. It has had some bad effects on my mind... so i kinda know how you feel.. Its hard as theese thoughts a embedded into your memory... i feel really sorry for the things happened with.. May god Give you strength to overcome the mentakl depriavement....

Wow, sorry to hear that this has happen to you. I have not gone through anything like this but I know how if feels. I had something similar happen. I use to go to this gym and this guy would accidentally touch me and I had a bad confrontation with him and my bf. I saw him at the book store one time and I was by myself I made a run for it right out the exit. My bf told me that I should not be afraid of him in a public place. If anyone should run it should be that looser.

Sad that you were the one to get fired over that. It would have freaked me out to have him standing so close to me.

That's awful. Why did they fire you for reporting him? Was he a higher up, or something? It's too bad that you didn't go get an employment attorney. I don't know if it would have done any good or not, but it may have been worth a try. If he harassed you, he probably did the same thing to other women. It's horrible that scum get to keep their job, and other people don't. I'm surprised you left the store without slugging him. Most women probably would have.

Oh no, I have not had this happen to me, but I believe I would have responded the same as you did.. How scary..