what would you like your boy friend to be like ,thin or strong?

I prefer someone who is slightly built. That shows he has been working out to keep his body fit and healthy, which will make him a strong man too. I feel safer with someone like this because his strength shows his capability of keeping me safe. Some thin guys may look hot, but mostly these hot guys have some muscles in them. Thin guys make us girls look fat lolz

are you sure? most of my classmates are fat. :):D when i was a college student 7 years ago, most of my classmates are thin. but when i graduated 3 years ago. all of them get fatter and fatter!! including me.

Forget all that physical stuff, we want honesty!...someone we can TRUST and grow old with.

Yeh when I was younger I was very thin. I couldn't help it. I ate whatever I wanted but hardly ever gained weight. I also was very active in sports and that also helped alot. Playing outside all day with neighborhood friends helped as well. SOme boys are just thin and can't help it. If they are thin because they are starving themselves then that's not good. My metabolism isn't so great now so I have to watch what I eat.

I think strong is better

Well, mostly I suppose it has to do with aesthetics and what a person is physically and sexually attracted to. A large portion of the media portrays being 'thin' as desirable and attractive, so a large portion of people are most probably influenced by this. I don't really agree with the gender specifications of how a person should be or should look. As for the initial topic question, 'how would I like someone to be like -' Well, I wouldn't. I wouldn't specify physical traits or specifications when considering a person as a partner. I don't believe this necessary. It kind of bewilders me why people have appearance-based specifications, because anyone I have ever felt a really strong connection with has seemed beautiful to me.

it does not really matter to me but when i was looking i was not looking for looks iwas looking for someone who would treat me the way that i wanted and not be self centered and think all about him self so looks dont matter what matters is the way they will treat you

Just as long as they're smart and caring, it doesn't matter to me if their strong or thin. But if I had to pick, I'd pick strong.

are you sure? most of my classmates are fat. :):D when i was a college student 7 years ago, most of my classmates are thin. but when i graduated 3 years ago. all of them get fatter and fatter!! including me.

I want my boyfriend to be outstanding by mean standing up for me have money hot and some sort of buffness. Share some common things and compassion.