Do you want to be a Submissive Wife???
By ayou82
@ayou82 (3450)
Philippines
8 responses
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
4 Nov 07
Hell no. My husband knew what he was geting him self involved the minute he met me so if ever that was on his mind I am sorry to have disapointed him. I am for equality and respect. I do my duties as a mother, wife and homekeeper but I dont obey blinly his wishes. My mother didnt do it, my grandmother didnt do it, my mother in law didnt so why should I.
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@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
4 Nov 07
well good luck on the equal rights thing it aint going to happen any time soon but we all just wish, and hope and pray that it will one day.
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@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
6 Nov 07
No way. I could never be a submissive wife & never want to be. Why would any woman want this? To be told what to do & how to do it? No thanks.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
6 Nov 07
No-one wants to be submissive. It's just not right. Men and women are equal. I know there are countries where women are classed as beneath men and treated little better than animalsand that these women accept their life because it is "written" or some such crap but that is just 'wrong'.
I respect that men and women are different and that each have their place in life but we are all individual and on a different path. In marriage, a ccouple should be walking at least in the same direction and together. That one partner dominates and subjugates the other is not marriage.
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
6 Nov 07
One reason why I also opened this right is because when I was in Japan, I noticed how Men treat their wives at home, See the difference in our culture we dont bow down and take their shoes of. Because I was thinking they are not disabled not to do their own s***TTT together.
We women of today we should have our freedom at home.. It is to serve our husband and thats it but not like being submissive as in we do the task on our own and their not doing their part as a partner and treat us like slaves. Thanks Anyway Ms Tickle!
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@tonyllenium (6252)
• Italy
4 Nov 07
eheh i think that in my country girls don't want be submissive wives..on the contrary in some cases here are girls who pretends her man must be submissive with her..strange!!!
so i think if you do as your choice because you like it..ok not a problem but if you don't like it and other people pretend that from you or you are obliged to be a submissive wife it's very bad!!!i have the idea that people just do what they likes in life..as good as the concept of freedom,but i think that a girl that is submissive can be tired of this situation and so in the future want change her behaviour or change the partner as well!!i don't pretend that a girl is submissive with me i leave her to choose the behaviour she thinks is suitable for her life but she must be only respectful towards others!!
@redbubbles (329)
• Philippines
6 Nov 07
There's no way I will be a submissive wife. Marriage life is a give and take partnership. All of us are created equal. I want to be heard and my decisions and ideas respected. It's not all the time that the man will be heard and should take complete control. I also am a human being who can think and feel.
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@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
4 Nov 07
I can't say that I do ever want to be a submissive wife. I want to walk side by side with my husband through life, not behind him, watching his backside. This is not the life for me. I bow down to no one but our Lord God in heaven.
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@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
4 Nov 07
Yeah me too coz God is the only reason i cpould be submissive to. I will offer to the Lord everything. But to my husband i still hold on to equality in life. In couples we have our own roles and part to play..and thats what we need to fulfill.
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@karendva (118)
• United States
3 Nov 07
I have been a submissive wife although not by total choice when I was married to a total controller. It is not fun, at least not for me. The marriage I am in now, I wouldn't say that I am submissive, but I do talk to my husband and let him in on my thoughts and ideas. I don't ask for permission to go somewhere, but I do check to see if he has plans for us as a family and if he doesn't then I tell him where I am going. I don't consider that to be submissive but considerate. Now the bedroom is a whole other blog! LOL
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