arrange marriage Vs love marriages........

I believe in love. I know, I have heard that tradtionally, with arranged marriages they stay together compared to love but how many of those stay together because of the prssure from family. I would rather not be married at all as opposed to have someone else pick who I should spend the rest of my life with.

Like many people, I will choose to become a free person to choose the one I marry and that is the one I love. I would choose my own choice to have a partner who are my personal choice. Because I believe that if you love someone you marry, it is not hard to start a new family life. And that love can bound you together until the rest of your life. I am married for almost 12 years and I am happy because I choose the one I love and not the choice of my parent and it work for us.

It is no doubt that every youth have a dream to a love marriage. But love before marriage is not as better than love after marriage. Marriage arranged by elders is wise step. Our parents know better and they should be allowed to decide our future. Love marriage uses to ruin our home values and also disobey our parents and elders, which is not good behavior. Love marriage is not more than a dream. Some time dreams do not take place. We should give the right to our parents to select a correct life partner for us. The partner selected by their parents could establish their love affairs just before they married or just after they proposed for each other. but love after marriage is necessary in both cases of arranged and love marriage.