What would you choose to be as your LOVER, FAT or THIN lover?
By doreentduran
@doreentduran (212)
Philippines
November 3, 2007 8:25pm CST
Well for me, having a FAT lover or shall i say a CHUBBY lover is cool. They are cute especially when they dance on the floor. Though not all are good dancers, but i can assure they make a good dance steps everyone rarely seen. Haven't you wondered when FAT guys dances we all laugh out loud. I don't think it's because of discrimination or something, but well i know some are making fun of them. But most of the time they make us joy, they put away are stress. Isn't it? Well FAT LOVERS have their own way of making people happy in life. And about the THIN LOVER, well i can't deny i prefer them though, but i realize people mostly choose THIN LOVER for physically appearance, isn't it? I don't think I'm wrong with this. Because this is the most perception one could ever have, well including me though. But having FAT LOVER or THIN LOVER isn't a big deal. If your HAPPY having a FAT or THIN LOVER then go for it. That's your life. We make our own life. We have no right to judge others life. Let's just be happy!
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13 responses
@jamesarmstrong (251)
• China
4 Nov 07
I prefer thin for my ex-GF is a little fat.
When I go shopping with her I am envious of the guy with a charming thin GF.But lady can lose weight for their lover, they can turn into be a pretty girls.So when I choose my GF, it doesn't matter if she is thin or fat, the characteristic is what will be considered.
@veronica_56 (31)
• China
4 Nov 07
i have the same idea with you!!the characteristic is most important to me!!
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
4 Nov 07
That is a good way of looking at things. I am a plus size woman, I think I am a very nice looking person, I take good care of myself, I excercise daily, eat well and have had a hard time keeping my weight down because of thyroid issues and I also have polycystic ovary syndrome. I think whatever makes you happy is what you should go for regardless of what other people say or do. Thanks for saying that!
@xXxMikesWifeyxXx (3072)
• United States
4 Nov 07
Hey there. i seen your post my sister was diagnosed with the same thing polycystic ovarian syndrom as well. makes hard for her to loose weight as well.
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
18 Nov 07
Well, I wont mind if he is fat or thin as long as I love him and I am happy with him. I believe that a good person or a romantic and responsible partner does not depend on the built of the body. It depends on how you carry yourself and your relationship. If you love someone you will love him for what he is.
@xXxMikesWifeyxXx (3072)
• United States
4 Nov 07
All i can say is that you should treat one as you would like to be treated. dont judge becasue someone is overweight or struggling to keep it down. also what comes around goes around so watch what you do and say to others...
@phatlady69 (12)
• China
26 Nov 07
I am a plus size woman and like big guys. I found my dream guy on pluscupid.com.
@xreesex (114)
• United States
3 Dec 07
I would be happy with however my lover looks, as I have never been one to determine worth based on looks. As long as the person I am with is happy and secure with who they are, that's all that matters. Confidence really is the sexiest thing in the world.
@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
4 Nov 07
Well, it depends on who the better guy is. A lot of my crushes have been thinner (I don't like guys who are too thin though) but sometimes when I see a guy who is a little heavier, I find him cute (like you said). But whoever I meet first, and whoever is best for me is the one I'll choose. This kind of question is the same thing as 'rich or poor' kind of thing.
@madhuri567 (302)
• India
4 Nov 07
not fat not thin
not dwarf not taller
Medium medium
around 5'7 and 60 kgs
@pinay81 (1535)
• Philippines
4 Nov 07
for me it doesnt matter if i fall inlove w/ the fat or thin man the important is we love each other i feel secure with him i love both fat and thin the best with the chubby is huggable cute like pillow and about the thin he can move faster and also i can hug him w/ my small arms:-)
@miracleworld (201)
• India
4 Nov 07
i dont know , any its always fun to have loversof any size .
Regard
Harry
@sasidvc (39)
• India
4 Nov 07
FAT LOVER OR THIN LOVER BOth are lovers no problem .Because thin lover enjoying dance ,and byke riding and seat is also no problem. fat lover wants car. so thin lover i prefer . Some times Fat lover gives more enjoy like after marriage. she gives the that times her body melted the all type of moments. fAT lover pose the big lady. no one touch the my lover. that also one advantage.
@sandipdey2 (34)
• India
4 Nov 07
Personally,I love both fat and thin people.But my
personal preference will always be a nice,kind,
lovelable fat lady.Fats are an asset to female body posture.They look more beautiful and lovelable.I will
also love to have physical relationships with fat people as I think they are more sexy than thin people.If I have metioned anything that hurts anybodys feelings then I beg your pardon?Please give your honest reply?I will like to hear more from fat
ladies?
