have u ever been sexually harrased by any of your family member...?
@pearlineabraham (23)
India
November 3, 2007 11:06pm CST
i was sexually harrased by my brother... yes my own brother for 4 and a half years... it all strated when i was in my second standard.... for two years... then in my fifth... then for two years again in my 7th when i was home because i just attended my age.... he was really desperate and tried to go oral on me.... he forced me to go oral on him as well.... but i refused.. he used to threaten me sayin tat he would tell my parents tat i asked him to do such things.... but when i refused... i threatened him.... five years later... i told my parents.... but they refused to believe me... and supported my brother cause he was supposed to take care of them in their old age..... now... i stay in a hostle... and am being taken care of my boy friend and his family... have u ever been in this situation....? how will u react if u where in this kind of a situation......?
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@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
4 Nov 07
it is a buskin. i have a elderly sister and a young brother. both of them love me, and i love them too. i am now in a city which is far away from my home. i get my college here. we are eqalitily to each other. in my opinion , my parents like my sister more. because she is a girl but i and my brother are boys .so when there are housework , my parents always ask me and my brother to do that. my sister is a nice girl . she was three years older than me. and she had graduated and have a job. but i still was a stuedent , so she often give me some money. i am happy.
you are so pity. you can go with your boyfriend. and never go your home again.
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@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
4 Nov 07
it is a buskin. i have a elderly sister and a young brother. both of them love me, and i love them too. i am now in a city which is far away from my home. i get my college here. we are eqalitily to each other. in my opinion , my parents like my sister more. because she is a girl but i and my brother are boys .so when there are housework , my parents always ask me and my brother to do that. my sister is a nice girl . she was three years older than me. and she had graduated and have a job. but i still was a stuedent , so she often give me some money. i am happy.
you are so pity. you can go with your boyfriend. and never go your home again.
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@madhuri567 (302)
• India
4 Nov 07
I pity for the situation your are in with..I havent experienced a situation like this..But yu did the right thing coming out of the house
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
4 Nov 07
I never have and I am sorry that you have. I'm not really sure what I would do. I think I would report my brother to the authoritys since your parents are not willing to help you. Tell a teacher that you trust or a councellor. it is obvious that you need help outside from your family. I know this must be very ,very difficult for you but not speaking out will be just as difficult. If your brother is abusing you, his own sister, then he won't hesitate in abusing other women. You need to speak out.
@pearlineabraham (23)
• India
5 Nov 07
i've spoken it out.... and i've almost come over it.... i have no problem here....
@fanji008 (775)
• China
4 Nov 07
Sorry to hear that you've had a such unlucky experience.I think you should bravely fight against it. It's not a thing one should put up with. You should always say "no" to anything like that. Maybe you can have a long talk with your parents again about those things.If they still don't believe in what you said,then leave home and lead your own life. I hope you'll have a better life in the future. Good luck!
@pearlineabraham (23)
• India
5 Nov 07
i've been talkin to them for the past 3 years... how long can i talk...???
@fanji008 (775)
• China
5 Nov 07
Well,then that's so bad. I know it hurts you a lot.Then be brave to leave the environment that made you suffer. Anyway I hope you can come out of the shadow and lead a wonderful life then! All the best for the coming year!
@younger401 (2)
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5 Nov 07
you had better give up the relation with your family ,go a new city for a new life
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
5 Nov 07
I have been hit on by a family member and I had to remind that person that I was related to them.
