whoe's important friends or family......

November 4, 2007 1:58am CST
hi friends... nower days we r seeing that we r giving more importance to our friends then our families... is this rite?????? family has its own importance in our life... so why we always selecting our friends first?? why we always fight with iur families for our friends???? wat are your opinion????
3 responses
ssh123
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
4 Nov 07
For me and most of our family members, it is the family that is most important which stood by us whenever we had serious problems. The friends are good for exchange of thoughts, sharing views and for some small help. They really rarely think of feeling one among the family. So therefore I do not depend on the friends for any gigantic help when I need.
ashishverma436
@ashishverma436 (66)
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4 Nov 07
thnx 4 ur view.. bt there r some things 4 those u had to rely on ur friends... in some cases our parents dont help us out and at that time our friends step forward to help us... i knw family comes first bt friends also plays an important part in our life
ssh123
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
4 Nov 07
It depends on the type of rapport you have built up with the parents. No parents will be cruel to their children as to not to help them. If the type of help required is not ethical,some parents back out. If the children havenot developed the habit of listening to the parents, again the parents will not go out of the way to help them. Ihavebeen seeing 100s of families where the parents go out of the way to help children, sometimes even to the extent of selling their property to finance the higher education or to bail him out from some trouble. I have 15 to 20 friends, most of the time, they will be awaiting for getting some advantage from me rather than helping me.
atulleo25
@atulleo25 (484)
• India
4 Nov 07
Family is more important as they have blood relation with us and they will always care for us whether in difficult times or best days of our lives. Friends can also be the same but it is hard to find all true friends who will be close as skin to you for lifetime. Family will always be attached to you in your thick and thin.
saivenkaat802003
@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
4 Nov 07
Both friends and Family are equally important.. there are certain things which you can confide only to your friends and some only to the members of family. So one can't take the other at the cost of one.