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well,I think you have made the decision to get back together,you should trust him.Otherwise you will never feel happy .

hmmm...sounds like a difficult situation because the struggle is in your heart and mind. maybe you can ask yourself, why did you get back with him in the first place? do you really love him? have you already forgiven him? if you have answered yes, then deal with the problem yourself. you have to decide in your mind that you will trust him again. because if you didn't get back together with him, you can always maintain that distrust. but if you are with him, better trust him or leave him. if you are having problems with the thought, then go talk to him. i am sure you will reach a desirable conclusion. and maybe you can ask your boyfriend, if he is remorseful enough not to do it again. if you think he cannot be trusted and is just playing with your emotions, then why not move out of the relationship and move on with your life? hope you make the right decision, indio. God bless!

hi indiogeek! in my opinion as you have made the decision to get together with your boyfriend,you should trust him and needn't care about his past much,just forget it and you would be happy everyday with your boyfriend.:D

I don't know how this guy is, but from my experience, it's hard to be with the same guy who cheated before. My ex hooked up with another girl while we were still together. I found out and we broke up. But I couldn't let him go. Two months later, he broke up with that girl, and we got together. It was a wrong decision. As much as he promised not to cheat, I was haunted by the thought of him cheating again. Life with him was never easy, and although I'd been giving him chances, I found him trying to fool around my back with other girls, and once with my friend. It's hard to trust a guy like this, because once they cheated, their heart will never rest with you since he can be easily tempted. However your guy may be someone different, someone who can change and be faithful to you. So open up your eyes, and trust your instincts. If he is the one, then doubt him no more. Most importantly, ask yourself if you really accept him after what he did because you love him or the opposite. If he appears to be a jerk, dump him as fast as you can and get a life which doesn't center around him. I am happy I finally had the courage to leave my ex. With a boyfriend who I can trust makes me a happier person.