Why some people live the price on gifts?
By violeta_va
@violeta_va (4831)
Australia
November 5, 2007 8:14am CST
I hate when I get a gift and find the price sticker or tag still on it left by mistake/on purpose. My aunt always does that it makes me so angry. Is she saying look how much I spend on you so thats how much you should spend on me too or what. I always make sure I remove the price no matter how much something is $1 or $1000.
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@toryaslim822 (240)
• United States
5 Nov 07
I dont know why people do that either. But when im wrapping gifts I make sure there is no tag on there like 3 times. My mom would use to yell out me if I would accidently forget one, so I got into the habbit fast of checking about 3 times for the tags. :)
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@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
5 Nov 07
I do the same thing check it again and again just in case. Some people came when we got the house with a house warming present and the present had a tag which was about $200 (it was a dinner set - plates and all that) so I decided not to keep it as I dont need such an expencive set when there were things I needed more. So I went to the store and I was told that the prise on it was old and that they had a huge sale on them and they were $49.95 I ended buying a clock (I had to add $20 to get a decent one). So you se the price is not always right
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@toryaslim822 (240)
• United States
5 Nov 07
Very true, I ususally go christmas shopping on the days that are having huge sales.. Well everyday that isn't black friday. But I think people do that, to make themselves seem more important or better the more I think about it. I dont really know.
@ctrymuziklvr (11057)
• United States
5 Nov 07
I have an aunt who does the same thing and I know it's to show us how much she spent on the gift! My mother does it now that she is well on in age but I know it's because she doesn't see very well and doesn't mean to and it's not always on everything. I always make it a point to take off the price tags but I keep them in case anything needs to be returned.
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@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
5 Nov 07
same case with me. She even sais go on open it (right then and there) so you have to admire it and goo and ahhhhhh infront of her. I do remove the prise and keep the bill in case they want to return or excange it.
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@ElusiveButterfly (45940)
• United States
9 Nov 07
I have former in-laws that left the fake price sticker on the gift they gave. I gave them a disgusted look when I saw it on there. But, it didn't matter. They would revel in the spotlight thinking that people really thought they spend a good deal of money for the gifts they gave. I always remove the sticker. If the price is printed on the package, I peel that part of the package away.
It isn't how much you spent, but the thought that counts.
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
10 Nov 07
I once tpld my aunt oh man you payed that much the same thing was on special at Target last week and it was 50% off. She went red but said nothing do you think that made her change the way she is. No sir.
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
7 Nov 07
I think its rude as well and does not serve any purpuse but to bring atention to the person. Thanks for your reply
@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
7 Nov 07
Hi i think ive received maybe one time a gift with a price on it,haha.Grrr!I make sure i remove the price because i find it insulting when someone leaves it probably on urpose to shw how much they cared about the person and wated them to see the price of their gift,whip de ding.My grandmother was like that when i was young,always leaving the price on it.
Peanutjar:)
@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
8 Nov 07
Yes thats it,"how much they spent"which to me is insulting if i ever found the price tag staring at me when i opened up my gift.Grr!Have a nice day;)
Peanutjar:)
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
8 Nov 07
I dont think it has to do with how much they care mut showing how much they spend
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@conrada1923 (79)
• Philippines
5 Nov 07
SO that you will not get mad violeta just think that they forgot to remove the tag. Don't replace gratitude with anger!!
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
6 Nov 07
I am not saying if its once in a blue moon some people do it all the time. Like my aunt she always lives the price on
@conrada1923 (79)
• Philippines
6 Nov 07
Yes Violeta, you may be right. But is it not your Aunt's way of saying that " this gift was bought with a price, I spent a sum for this because you're special!! " . What's wrong with that ? If you are the receiver will you not appreciate it more because you seem to be special to the giver ? Although of course it's not the price of the gift...but still..well..
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
6 Nov 07
Well to be honest no it is not. If its the prize that she is so worried about than she should spend her money better. If she thinks that anyone gives a rats a$$ how much a box of chocolates its or that I should be forever greatful for $4 box of chocolates well I am sorry I am not going to do it. Who cares how much something is as long as it comes from the heart and its personal. I would not give a book to a person that does not read books I will think what that person likes not how much money to spend to show that I care.
@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
5 Nov 07
I know a few people who do this, and I think it's a 'cheesy' practice at best (no matter what their logic is.) A gift is supposed to be something from the heart of the giver...do they honestly think the price makes a difference. I once asked one of my relatives why they did that, and they said it was so the gift could be exchanged easier. (Hey, isn't that what a gift receipt is for????) I seem to note that it seems to be only those who are obsessed with money, and apparent status, who do this. Personally, I check each and every gift before I wrap it, just to make SURE the price sticker isn't on it anywhere.
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
6 Nov 07
That is so true and I have noticed that as well with status and money. My aunt is obsesed with that, so are the others that live the price on my gifts.
@Aussies2007 (5336)
• Australia
6 Nov 07
Some people simply forget to remove it.
Some people might do it on purpose while some other don't have any "etiquette".
Removing the price of a gift... is one of these little rule in life. Some people never learn them.
At the end of the day... most people who receive a gift will put a hard cash value on it... and will sometimes go to the shop to find out what that gift really cost. So really... when you think of it... while it is rude to leave the price on it... it does not make a great deal of difference.
There is no rule which says that you have to give her a gift as expensive as the one you receive. Actually I would give her a cheap gift to see how she reacts to it. Because if she expect you to pay her back for her gifts... you are better off without them.
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
6 Nov 07
I know the way she shops so I would bet on it. She gets the things when they are on extra super special but she pills the special stickers and lives the original (she gave my son a t-shirt and shorts for his b'day in april) that gives you an idea it was from target and had 33.95 on it the thing is 2 months earlier I got the same one for the folowing sumer and it costed $6.63 with all the specials.
So in conclusion I give as much as I can afford at the time not how much the person gave me.
@MUKUL_6907 (292)
• India
6 Nov 07
my opinion is also same as yours. i also hate people leaving the price tags on gifts. i havn't came across such situation many times but yes couple of times i also lost my head seeing this.
i still remeber on my 15th birthday, i was gifted a watch with price tag stuck on it!
one should not gift anything better than this.....
you are right, gift matters, not its price!
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
6 Nov 07
for a long time I used to think that it was only me tha mind that now I see that most people think the same way as I do.