What will you do if the one you love doesn't love you?

@fanji008 (775)
China
November 5, 2007 9:22am CST
In our daily life, we often come across the cases that someone loves you but you don't love the one and you love sb but he/she doesn't love you.The best case is that the one you love loves you as well. So have you had the experience before that you love sb but he/she doesn't love you? What did you do or what will you do?
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@jedhimura (194)
• Philippines
5 Nov 07
ohhhh... this topic really hits me!!! straight! I really experienced this many times (below 5!, LOL!)... What do i do? honestly until now, i dont know what to do when i ever get into a situation like that again... but.. there was one time that, I just kept it inside.. and just try to avoid her... so that hopefully my feelings for her will eventually fade out... hopefully! T_T Good day fanji!!
@fanji008 (775)
• China
6 Nov 07
Good luck and I'm sure it'll go away! I hope you'll find the one who'll love you back. Have a good day:)
@nkhanna (922)
• India
5 Nov 07
Though frankly speeking i never came across such a scenario in my life,however many of my close friends have face this kind of problem that the one they love does not love them n the one that loves them,bt they dnt love them.i guess this happens bcoz of taste.n this happens mostly in the case of infactuation not in case of love.a person falls in true love with the one who is actually made for him or her.bt unfortunately we r not able to discriminate between love n infactuation most of the time.And as the old saying goes that we always take the things that we have as taken for granted.I strngly suggest that such people should go for such a partner who loves them n not for the one they love.bcoz they will always care for u n ur emotions,bt this will not happen in the other case.So y to go that way where there is only thorns in the way.hope tihs works
@fanji008 (775)
• China
6 Nov 07
Hope so too! Just wish the one who's had that experience can let it go and move on. Thanks for sharing:)
@beyonce03 (2331)
• Canada
5 Nov 07
There is nothing you can do about that. You got to try to stop to love him/her. I know it,s not something easy to do. But it's easier to do when you know the person doesnt love you like you do. If you don,t tell the person and you are always hoping, it,s harder to forget someone. it has happen to me alot when I was younger. But one day everyone will find the love for them :)
@fanji008 (775)
• China
5 Nov 07
Thanks for sharing! I quite agree with you.I won't love sb who doesn't love me.It makes no sense.But there're some friends around me who can't let it go. I think sometimes,giving up is also a kind of beauty. As what you said, everyone will find the love for them later:)