closeness

You know, both are important to a married man. I cannot lose either as they are two most important women in my life.

this question was asked to me when i was in gradeschool so you caught my attention.. hehe.. my answer is i would definitely choose my mother, mothers are irreplaceable while spouses can be replaced! =D this is true, our mothers can't be replaced, we were from them. I can't replace my mother with my spouse in times of danger. I can still change my spouse but not my mother, she's so irreplaceable. you got what i mean? =)

There wouldn't be any contest in this department. I would definitely choose my husband. My mother is no longer living but she had major issues that she was never able to overcome. Actually, it was sad. Am happy where I am now and very content.

I would choose my spouse because my mom is pretty independent and altho she can't drive anymore she pretty much likes to live on her own and do things for herself. I do have to take her grocery shopping once a month but that doen't bother me cause she buys me candy :) -Amber