The Perfect Soulmate...
By Wiiguy
@Wiiguy (93)
United States
November 5, 2007 5:51pm CST
I've thought about this a billion times. I know what it is that I want and I hope that maybe someday, I'm able to finally earn that love. Some of the questions that were raised, in my recent discussion, brought me to think about the perfect soulmate. It has to be someone beautiful, someone that I can be with, day and night, and whose voice is someone pleasent and joyful to hear, like a choir singing like angels. Not only in beauty, but with intelligence as well, someone that I can sit down and talk with for hours on everything and enjoy each other's company without feeling uncomfortable or nervous in their presence. Finally, it has to be someone that not only shares my passion for the things I do (such as videogames, movies, politics, etc), but who LOVES ME for who I am and what I am, regardless on what I look on the outside. I used to know a woman that I dated, way back in high school, that was EVERYTHING that I ever wanted in a woman and now she's with another man, married. But I hope to find someone like her again. Someone that will make me happy and give me nervous butterflies....
So that's my idea of a perfect soulmate, if there is such a thing. If you believe in soulmates or you don't, but have an idea of what you want, please tell. What are you looking for in a perfect soulmate, if there is such a thing?
3 responses
@shakirabijin (79)
• Philippines
6 Nov 07
For me perfect soulmate doesn't exists because I don't believe that there is a man or a woman out there who is perfect.
Yeah I do have an ideal man. I did wished that he is handsome, intelligent,gentleman, kind, responsible then suddenly this thoughts will immediately pop into my mind and realized that I might be looking for someone who is perfect which is impossible to find.
Nobody is perfect in this world and so I am willing to accept whoever is the right person for me because I do trust God I know that he knows more than anybody else.
Right partner may true but perfect soulmate may not be true.
@u_sweet (18)
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6 Nov 07
for me finding a perfect soul mate is a very hard thing. in this modern era no one is a perfectionist. its not to find someone is very beautiful/ handsome, financially sound, and etc. its about getting whom you can really understand and who can understand u before u say it. who is intelligent aand smart
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
6 Nov 07
First off there is noone that is 'perfect'. If you are looking for perfection you are going to be let down. I do however believe that everyone has a soulmate. It may take you several misses before you find them, but eventually it will happen. I was married 3 times before I found him and I wasn't even looking at the time. But, when we met and started talking, we both said it was like we had lived parallel lives all along. The first thing that got me was his sense of humor, (we met online in a chat room) the first message I sent him (well finally sent him after 4 deletes) was just that 'i like your sense of humor' we ended up chatting that night for 6 hours! We met in person 3 weeks later after many phone calls, he flew 1600 miles to spend a week together, a month after that I was moving 1600 miles. We are still together after 2 1/2 years. First off you say that you are looking for this perfect, beautiful person, but yet they shouldn't care about what you look like? Are you going to love this person even if she doesn't have makeup on, her hair done perfectly and is dressed in comfortable clothes lounging around the house. Keep this saying in mind 'You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly' Think about it. And one other thing, learn to not sweat the small stuff.
