Do you know if all of your 'myLot friends' are male or female?

Case in point; your own profile does not indicate whether you are male or female but of course one can tell by your user name. My profile does not indicate it either and I don't know how to fix it. When I get a friends request I usually check their profile and the types of questions they have posted and maybe some of their responses to get a mental image of the person in my own mind. Most of the time I do accept people as friends male or female, old or young.

Actually I have no idea if what are the gender of my friends here in mylot. They can appear as male like putting male picture on their account but on reality they are female or the vice versa. I just accepted them not on the basis of their gender.

I have to say I almost never check their gender. I would have a lot of friends that I don't know their gender. If they respond a few times, & we get up a bit of communication, I usually figure it out. I don't really care what gender people are, although I guess I get curious.

Generally I don't check when someone asks to be my friend, I just accept them. Later, if they do something that irritates me like sending me email spam for their business [that's happened several times!] then I just delete the connection. Their gender is not all that important to me though there have been a few times that I made an assumption and I was surprised when I found out otherwise.

Me, i just accept and accept all their invitations. I don't look at their profile, i don't look at their gender this is not an issue to me. The more the merrier. But in regards with potential new friend, it think it will takes time to know if that person invited you will be your potential friend and it really depends on you, for me it will takes time.

Sure, I'll accept most any friend. It doesn't matter whether they're male, female, or questionable. lol The only real stipulation for me, I guess, is that, if I see they have discussions where they aren't against animals being abused, I won't befriend them. I recently deleted a friend, when I saw their latest discussion where they were talking about a cruel sport where animals were being fought, and they were all for it. I can't be friends with someone like that, even online.

Hi someonesmom I have accepted many friends here on mylot and it really doesnt occur to me if they are male or female. Its really not important to me. Alot of times I can usually tell when Im talking to a female by just the words they use. And I think on our profile it might say F or M but Im not sure.LOL

I actually have friends from a year ago on here that I still do not know their gender. HAHAHA! Someday I might know. LOL HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

Yes, I have thought a certain person was male/female only to find out I was incorrect. It didn't really matter, I was just surprised, I guess b/c of the way someone comments on something and they may have sounded like a female and then to find out that they are a male. Pleasant surprises is what I call them.

Yes, I wonder all the time. Sometimes I just assume someone is one gender, based on how they talk, then find a comment later that makes me either wonder about it, or see that I was wrong. I have even had others think I am a guy. I have a KITTEN as my avitar! What guy would have a fuzzy little kitten talking about crying inside (that's what it says. Probably too small to see it says "sometimes when you cry, noone seer your tears") I thought it was kinda girly, myself.

I often check on a person's profile to see if they are male or female. Many times I don't need to as I can usually tell by their discussions one can tell which gender they are, but yes, sometimes it gets confusing especially if no gender is mentioned on their profile. That's why I check a person's page to look at some of the discussions they've started or replied to, and that can usually give me a hint

I don't even bother if they are male or female. As long as they invited me and can repond to my discussions.

Hi,there! I don't know all of mylot friends' genders. Actually I don't care too much about that.I make friends with those people because we have sth in common or we'd like to share sth with each other.The gender is not the point.But later maybe we'll get to know more about each other and then we know each other's gender. It helps us understand each other better:)

I don't mind if the person is a male or female as long as I find their discussions worthy for me.

I dont consider the gender while accepting friends here.I accept all requested friends invitation.Creating more friends, male or female is good to earn more here.I think here only few people are giving their orginal identity.So there is no meaning in considereing the gender.

Gender is not a main factor of consideration when accepting friends. I also do not bother much about their ages and nationalities as long as they are sincere enough to be my friends. Of course I will not be hesitating to approve any one who has responded any of my discussions before they request me as his friend. I then will straight away go to his profile to look for any interesting discussion to post. From my experience I know those friends who are busy in creating a lot of new discussions will rarely response us as I understand that they could hardly find any time to reply the discussions of all his friends. Anyhow I am happy with them as they provide source of new discussions for us to respond.

There are times that I've made friends with no gender posted on their profile, so my initial action is to look at their interests, their discussions or some posts that can provide me a better understanding about their gender. It's hard at times, since we don't know what to address if ever we come across their discussions or them to our discussion!;) Also, it bothers me when they use an avatar of a woman and yet they are men which makes me irritated at the same time. But the most important thing for me is, the way they post and how they participate here. as long as they also put comment on my responses, that for me is enough as I don't ask much even if they won't respond to my discussions..

Great point sweetheart! There is one friend that for ages I thought was male and then found out that he was actually a she! lol Didn't really upset me though as she was still the same person inside - its not as though he was trying to deceive someone on a dating service or anything so I didn't feel any harm had been done! xxxx

well to me i accept all my friends and the gender doesnt matter to me,this has happened to me and at first i thought one of my friends were a female and it turned out to be a male but it didnt matter,we get along great.