Is your partner your soulmate ?
By bong_domingo
@bong_domingo (878)
Philippines
November 6, 2007 6:16pm CST
I know some people who "happily" get into marriage and yet after a few years, the next thing you know they're filing for a divorce or are living apart because they don't "click" together....
I also know some friends who are still unmarried because they're still waiting for a soulmate or perhaps they're still finding out if their current partner is indeed their soulmate.
Some friends say that you should not marry for the sake of it or for the wrong reasons....you should choose a partner who makes you feel good about yourself... your soulmate....
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4 responses
@santwana_veddika (2018)
• India
7 Nov 07
me and my husband complete different in nature , attitude and behaviour .so from begning we have decided we accept all what we individually want .
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@bong_domingo (878)
• Philippines
7 Nov 07
Hi Satwana... thanks for dropping some comments... but i hope you don't mind me asking.... how do you simply get along or blend when you say you're completely different? do you complement each other in some way? what if you totally have different views on certain conversations? what happens then?...
can i invite you as one of my friends here?
@dania_elm (421)
• United States
6 Jan 08
i know exactly what u r saying my hubby and i are like day and night hes quiet im not hes a thinker im not etc what ever quality one of us dont have the other does it works out really well
@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
7 Nov 07
It depends Bong, because what is a soulmate to be like? I think some people rush into marriage or whatever because they think they have found the right mate! Then they or maybe just one of them is unhappy, but he or she still tries to make the marrige work and it just doesn't work out! They didn't get to know each other well enough before marriage! Her and i were only 17 when we started to live together! I realize now, that was way to young for me to settle down. I've never had my own place, it's like i was never single. Yes i know what love is, yet i also know i live without giving my whole heart! After 37 years i have also given up asking her to marry me. I'm not sad about it, i always thought i would get married some day! Soulmate or not? I don't know! Take care Bong.
@bong_domingo (878)
• Philippines
7 Nov 07
Hello Buds.... thanks for dropping by....
I guess some people or even teens nowadays just simply rush into relationship w/o thinking it wisely... i mean i regret hearing some of my relatives who marry at an early age and then just get miserable later.... i guess soulmate or not, getting into marriage must be carefully thought about... because it's like sharing practically the rest of your life w/ your partner and the family that you will build.... unfortunately for some people, they just consider the physical part.... which is kindda sad :-(
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@qinqin1202 (376)
• China
7 Jan 08
i dont think i am my partner's soulmate. you know, i am a ordinary people without deep thought. i dont have such habit to communicate with other people, even with my partner. sometimes, i think i have no soul, of course no soulmate. whatever, such situation does not bother us too much, the most important thing is that we love each other.
@myrrhyne (107)
• Philippines
26 Nov 07
I search this, there are too many different meaning of soulmates: One is according to the greek mythodoly story, our ancestors have 2 heads, and 4 arms. They offend a god and so that god punished them, and that god separate them and make them two. It is like adam and eve. They disobey GOD. This punishment we have to spend searching for our twin or our soulmates for the rest of our lives until we found it. hehehe
Soulmates can also be our friends , our mentors, teachers, enemy?! mmm maybe.
According to the wikipedia, the free encyclopedia it is a term used to designate someone with whom one has a feeling of a deep and natural affinity, and love, and friendship, intimacy and etc.
And according to me, a soulmate or my soulmate is the love that beep and bump into my hearts. It is I and him who feel full love together. No walls and no chains can separate us. ehhehehe. ANd i hope.
Actually my husband is not a husband material for some, my friends said and my family why him. He is the only person during that time who can makes me laugh and loves me for who i am. And therefore i conclude that he is really my soulmates. He is my forever. NYakkkksss.... heehehe
