Boy or girl does it matter?

Hello Dear!!I start to be ill ,as we say here, when someone ask me how we deal with 5 daughters?What your hubby think about that?O poor Dear you have only daughters!Be careful maybe he find some other ,and she will give him a boy!!Yes dear,I know you are not responsible!!That is God will!There are some sentence and questions from all kind of people but most from women!!For me the only important thing is to have healthy child!!Regards Silvana

Though I would have loved to have a girl and a boy, I have two lovely boys. People keep asking me to try for a girl all the time. It doesn't really matter what gender your baby is and what gender you were hoping for. Once the baby is out, they are yours and you love all of them whatever the gender.

People should not say to someone with three girls, when are you going to have a boy or vice versa.. That is just rude. It doesn't make a difference at all.

Gender Identification during the pregnancy has been banned in my country,..due to the discrimination that is being shown towards the girl child. Infact in one part of the my state, ( In Tamil nadu, India) their is a village, in which the mother or the grand parents kill the female baby as soon as it is born by poisioning. Geez.... What a harsh thing on the world..? And with the practice being brought to the government's notice, this cruelty has considerably been reduced.. but people say it still happens.. Take care Violeta_Va..^__^:)

I do not think it is a huge difference ....but you know how man thinks...they want a boy....a man for the house...and women like to have a girl....

dear violeta-va, i don't believe when people say that to you that it is meant to be taken verbatim. it is an old-school phrase of something to say cordially to a mother. kind of like, the more the merrier. people know how much you love your child and their wish for you (by making that statement) is that they would like to see you give all your love also to another little baby so they will also have an opportunity to be loved by you, and experience all the love which the other child of yours has too.

I know someone who already had 2 boys. When she knew she would have again a boy, she cried. But right now she's really happy with her boy, but thinking of maybe trying again. But she's not sure. Of crouse that if you already have a boy or a girl, you want t have the little couple. But everyne will love their children no matter what gender they are :)

It does not matter to me as long as they are heathy.But before i became pregnant with my daughter i always wanted a girl,the feeling was soo storng for this and when i found out i was having a girl i was soo happy and beside myself.Now if i ever get pragnant again(hopefully)it does not matter to me at all if its a girl or boy.I just wanted my first to be a girl and everyone said its impossible because the whole family(boyfriends)side is ALL boys,7 boys exact(brothers)my boyfriend is the second to the last that was born and his brothers all had boys except for one who had 2 gilrs and a boy.I was soo sick of hearing its a boy,boy,boy,boy!:{I knew somehow that it was a girl very early before the doctors could possibly tell.Instincts and intuition i gues,haha.Boy did they get fooled!!Even when i had proof and a picture of "her"parts they didnt believe me mostly the mother in law didnt and argued,shes old and set in her old ways so there you go,haha. Peanutjar:)

I have a boy and I am currently pregnant and I am hoping that its a girl. I want the experience of raising both genders, plus I really wanna be able to dress a little girl up and do her hair really cute. But if I end up having another boy I will be ok with it ! As long as the baby is healthy is all that really matters ! !