So sad to say that I've lost my brother last saturday....

i am so sorry for your loss,i know its gonna be a really rough road ahead,but he is watching down at you and smiling.i hope his children will beable to get through this,with the love around them and god they will be ok.wow what a young age to have to go,my prayers are with you and your family.i know the feeling hon,i lost my father 5 years ago and it kills me every day but i know in my heart he doesnt want me to be upset,so i do my best to make him happy for my children and my family.take care hon.pattie

hi there butterfly39 i am so sorry about your brother its sad when the kids don have a dad now thats so sad but god is looking after him now have a great day

That is so awful! I'm sorry that you lost such a good person in your life :( It sounds like he cared about his kids very much, and it sounds like he gave them a good future, whther he can share it with them or not. 40 is def. too young! I can not imagine losing someone so close to me. And the day I do I know my heart will shatter! But you have to know you are not alone, and won't ever be! He cared about his family so much when he was alive, and now that he is gone, he still does. Just keep his memory alive and he'll be with you forever! I'm sorry.

Condolonce from me... I know how you feel... It's hard to say how sad it was... My aunt passed away severals months ago and I know how it be... I hope, the children would be strong to face their new life...

I'm so sorry to hear about your brother. God have called him home and now he is in a better place than us. I wish that God will comfort your family as you grieve for his lost. Cliche it may sound, our life goes on even if our loved one's life have ended.

Oh Im so sorry to here that. My condolences to you my friend. But life must go on. And there are reasons for us to be here. We are here to pray for them I know you are grieving right now but you have to fight this because Life is always like that..I hope you can cheer up soon.

Buterfly how sad you must be feeling i have lost members of my family and know how you must feel .My thoughts are with his wife and children ,I cannot imagine how his wife must be feeling ,sad that her partener is gone waiting for the door to open and him to walk in.She would also be worried how she will manage financially as well as bringing up 3 children with no help or support. No-one to talk things over with regarding the children and just worried about how the children will cope without their father and trying to explain to them why daddy had to go away and where he has gone and why he won't be comming home. Butterfly your sister-in-law and the children will need you now more than ever and i am sure your brother knows that you will be there for them. Don't cry for him as he is in a better place and happy. Cry because you miss him, and cry for his wife and children as they will be lost without him or a while.Celebrate his life and his acheivementsand him for who he was.He will be lways by your side as he will be by his families side.Listen and you will hear him and be alert as you will feel him. I know my mother is by my side i feel her and hear.I will pray for all of you .God had better plans for your brother but we wish he didn't take our loved one from us so soon and that there must be someone else he could have taken, but he was the only person that could do the special job God needed him to do.Only the good die young .Take time to grieve but also take time to also remember all the good,funny,naughty,sad,mischievious, things he has done. Thinking of you and Gods Blessings

Well look at it this way..He gave all he had for the good of his family. You grieve over losing him; and Heaven rejoices over having him.

so sorry to hear about your loss, many thougts and prayers to you and your family

I am so sorry, my heart goes out to you. I can relate to how you are feeling. I too lost my one brother when he was only 37 years old. The only thing I can say is that time eventually heals the pain some. I will say a prayer for peace for you , and your brothers family. Know that people are thinking of you. Take care and try to stay strong, but remember it is okay to cry some too. All the best to you and your family.

I am so sorry to hear of your brother passing away. I know it is very difficult for you and his family. The pain is unbearable at this time but time will help to heal the pain. Take care.

I'm so sorry to hear about your lost. I feel for his children as I lost my mother two years ago and I feel so debastated for my lost to think I'm old enough to handle my lost. What more lossing your father at an early age. I really can't help it. I'm getting teary eyes already. I will include your family in my prayers so you and your family will be able to surpass this trial.

Oh Im so sorry to hear that..My condolences to you and your family. I know that this is really painful. Hope that he's happy now wherever he is...=)

I'm sorry for what had happen. I hope his family will get better soon.

I` so soory to hear about your loss, He must have loved his famly very much ... I1ll keep you and your family in my prayers GOD BLESS YOU ALL

I'm very sorry for you.And i pray for you and your family that the pain will go away even though it will take awhile. This summer i lost a dear friend just age 23 and every day is a struggle because of the missing. It's never easy to lose someone but it's sometimes harder to move on,but we can move on. I try to look at the future in a positive and that really gives me hope.

I am so sorry for your loss, butterfly. I wish I could say something to take away your pain, but I know from experience that there is nothing words can do. I am sending my positive thoughts your way and to your brother's wife and kids.