how to say "I LOVE YOU" to a girl? Plz help

Hi Gurvinder, you shouldn't try to run before you learn to walk. It's nice to hear that you have a crush on a girl and hope to build up a lasting relationship with her. You should get to know her better first, or be acquainted with her for a start if she doesn't even know you as a friend. Find an opportunity to go up to her and introduce yourself to her. Spend time interacting with her to know her more, and at the same time let her discover more about you. Be your natural self and not try to act like someone you are not. By doing this, you will appear as pretentious. If you are a nice and pleasant person, your personality and character traits will naturally show in your interactions. If you both hit it off well, something may develop over time. If you think she likes you from the way she reacts to you, you can next try and ask her out and see if she accepts or rejects your move. Don't be discouraged by rejections. Let things develop one stage at a time. Don't just get to know someone and the next thing tell the person you love her - it may just put her off instantly, because some gals don't like guys to come on too strong. Over time, she will size you up and know if she likes you enough to want a relationship with you, so you will have to gauge if this is how she feels about you. Although you may like her very much, don't hold too high hopes that she will become your life partner, especially if she is popular and have many other suitors. If you do, you may end up being disappointed one day. You should nevertheless chase your dream, try your level best and hope that things will turn out in your favor. That's the advice I can give you. All the best.

The following is not meant as a joke, as some people might think i'm laughing when i say this. Just get to know her, get her to know you. See if you both like eachother's company And then just, well, tell her how you feel and how your feelings have grown... It won't be easy, but the best results are often achieved by just saying "I really love you" rather than not doing anything ;) And you have to be very clear, don't try to be too subtle, because if she misread these subtle hints or whatever you might end up heartbroken.

Hello simplyman2006,Thanks for your post.Do it in just three easy steps. Step No 1,firstly find out if she is already engaged in any affair right inside or outside college, if the answer is no then,just tell her that you like her a lot and dont want to play with her anyway but want to marry her with her as after the studies are over but want to fix up the marriage with both famalies permission from now and listen what she has to say.If she gets arrogant on you then dont disturb her anymore then make your mind understand either she is not suitable for you or you are not suitable for her.However if you look her confused face, then give her time to think and assure her there is no pressure atall, but you can send your parents to her house for the introduction and fixup once she confirms.Very important point"Never take any friends help to convince her but do yourself with your own ability,but at the same time never let her feel that you are disturbing her, or following her."Please remember your approach should not be like a street romeo as you are approaching her for marriage and not for temporary dating.If she gives green signal then you know what should be done in stepNo2 and 3. If you are confident and efficient enough in expressing your mind in words then 7 to 10 minutes is more than enough to complete stepNo1 lol.All the best.

simple, say it will all of your heart.

hii simply man......are u really serious abut your love to her....wat does she consider about you.......are you to good frendss...... have ypou ever tried to knw wats her feeling for you.. first off all u try to knw her well...be very intimate to her...share all your feelings...say her hw imp she is to u in ur life...always be aside her in all her problemzz..never let her down...dont rush into anything......be calm...cool..nd steady... we will pray dat u get ur true love all the best

Heres a cute and easy way... write to her in a letter..I tried to write you a poem last night, but i had writers block and this is all i could come up with...Roses are red,violets are blue.Theres no easy way to say this eccept, ILOVE YOU.

saying i love you is very easy when it comes from your heart, some people cant say it because they cant feel it.

Well just be your self,but u have to be Romantic,Girls really love Flowers,let her know that you care.And ofcours you have to bring her in her favorate place,and dont forget Girls also love surprises.Goodluck.

What you are feeling is infatuation or a crush. Don't rush into saying "I love you" for that will surely scare her off. Instead, let her know that you are attracted to her and ask her out for coffee or a drink. If she says "no" well then you will know it wasn't a mutual attraction. But hey, who knows, maybe she'll say yes. You won't know if you don't ask.

Then you need to get to know her better. Give her compliments, women love that. Go slow, you don't want to scare her off. Despite what people think about me (and they know who they are) I don't have all the answers. For me, most of my relationships started out as friendships. The others, well they aren't worth mentioning. 2 of these were great (the last, I am still with him). The first only lasted a few months, but our break up was not due to us, it was more my fear of giving up everything I knew to be with him. Be yourself, don't try to be flashy or impressive with things that aren't a part of who you are. And be honest, women expect that. I believe in your country, women like traditions too. You know, traditional gifts. Guess I read to many books! lol. Love takes time and you have to let her get comfortable with who you are. Good luck and may the sun shine from your heart!

Yaar many people will give u the advice... and the end u might up end nowhere.. just be urself.. say wht ever u think of here..when u r alone.. say tht wht ur heart feels for her... nad your heart know it very well. Just be True to urself.. And The Answer will come definalely.. and best of luck..bro.. u will definately get ur love.. just beleive urself

hold off telling her you love her for a while. spend time with her, get to know her, let her get to know you. be her friend. listen to her stories, be a gentleman but not too clingy. give her plenty of space, don't crowd her but make sure she knows you are there if she needs you write her a song take her to dinner tell her shes gorgeous show up when its raining to dance, in the rain never forget her birthday tell her shes right give her gummy worms remember her favorite color be her protector, but don't be a bully and to seal the deal -- KISS HER ON THE FOREHEAD!!

hi, simplyman try to appeared in her eyes most of minutes everyday. study and discuss with her in school,accompany her to her home, have fun with her on weekend. listening and share feelings and viewpoints of life, to sum up, make friends with her. sometimes said nothing better then said too much. i've had a bad experience for confess to a boy who i liked. now i think that if i gave more time to the boy and me, i will sccessed.so,be patient and wait, time with tell you the result.

Just relax,prepare your emotion so that you will talk easily

I think you should ask your girlfriend first how she feels about you before U reveal your feelings to her. There is a chance she might not feel the same. Once U find how she feel about you. U can make the decision on whether to tell her her how you feel. If U find out she doesnt feel the same way, before U say anything. U will not feel like u are being rejected. The friendship that U to have will be the same. U will just have to move to find someone who feel the same. This is what i think. Hope it helps.

friend, i am menazsheik from kerala ..though i don't know much about your query, i would like to say something that in love don't ever make a fast step which is a false step in love...you just make sure that your love is real and not the affection which is usually seen at this age ..if your love is real then you do nothing everything well be go right in its right way ,,and you will get your love as your partner

Hi,there! You're brave to speak it out here and share with us. Cheers for your courage.I think you don't need to be shy.If you get to know each other more and you feel good for each other,then you can express your feelings bravely to her. If you wanna be more sure,you can give her some hints so that you can tell from her reactions whether she also has the feeling for you. Best wishes and good luck! Hopefully you'll be successful:)

What I can advice you is to show your feelings to her. I still believe that ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS. I think saying I LOVE YOU is an easy way to do but proving it through your actions is the hardest thing to do. Just go with the flow and wait for the right time and place. If you are really meant for each other, God will always find a way...Goodluck! =)

I think u are too shy,don' be afraid,if u are too shy to tell her before you go abroad,maybe it will be a pity though your whole life.how do you know she will reject you,maybe now she is thinking the same thing as u. there is a saying in Chinese now,I can translate it to you:there are lots of flowers in this world,and there is no need to love a certain girl,there are thousands upon thousands women at least,then we can begin our new life everyday! Come on,buddy,take it easy.I belive you can do it!

well i think that the best way would to be just tell her so what if she rejects you least then you know how she feels about you and seriously the worst thing that can happen is her saying she doesnt feel that way but that is why there is that one saying about she is not the only fish in the sea