What influences you to donate , the desire to help or the ethnicity of the needy
By suspenseful
@suspenseful (40192)
Canada
November 8, 2007 8:50am CST
I donate through offerings at our church and also if there is a meeting regarding people in a certain country or countries that are in dire straits, but I am never influenced by the photos I see, or especially the color of the face, whether the child or the family is from Asia, Africa, or Europe, or whether he or she is black skinned, brown skinned, or white.
In fact, I get rather turned off by that and would rather donate to organizations like Second Harvest or do the click to help links that have been advertised. You see, I would rather donate to an organization where any child would be helped and that you do not get the impression of "those poor black children needed our help" or "those poor Indian children are starving," and forget that there are children in Eastern Europe and the Appalachians whose faces are not so dark and yet are just as needy.
I would to like your opinions on this matter. Should the race of the recipients influence the giver's response?
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@Grandmaof2 (7579)
• Canada
9 Nov 07
I don't think the color of the persons skin should make one bit of difference. No child deserves to go hungry in my opinion, but with that said none of us are wealthy enough to save the world. I'm sorry that children from other countries are hungry, but I'm also sorry people right here in our country are hungry as well and I will help our own first, that's just my opinion suspenseful.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
12 Nov 07
It seems that many people here are going without because the money to help is going out to help the poor in countries where their own governments keep the money for themselves. Charity begins at home.
@Grandmaof2 (7579)
• Canada
13 Nov 07
God bless your heart and if I was there I'd offer you a big hug. You have never been so correct Charity starts at home just as you worded it. Thank You.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
14 Nov 07
There are a lot around us which we do not see. When I was young and lived in Vancouver, there were these old, what we cslled 'rubbie dubs", who were veterans from the two World Wars who had not adjusted to civilian life and lived on stuff they picked up from garbage cans and no one cared much about them. True there was stuff about helping the Canadian Indians, but not much done for these old skid row bums who probably were either mentally ill or suffering from shell sock.
@newzealtralian (3930)
• Australia
9 Nov 07
Being very community minded, I tend to give to those charities that meet the needs of my community and who I believe are actually doing something for the community. There is, however, one such organisation I am not giving to these days as they refused to help me and my girls when we were in crisis last year.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
14 Nov 07
I do not mind helping others, but I do prefer to give to organizations that do more than feed the body, they have to feed the soul as well.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
29 Nov 07
That is what I say. They have to help those to whom the money was intended.
@newzealtralian (3930)
• Australia
15 Nov 07
And those that actually stick to doing what they say they are doing. I'm not going to support those that say they are going to help anyone in need if they don't.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
8 Nov 07
1. There are some people who are known to me, who are elders and they spare their valuable time for social work, helping masses with their services. They need soem financial help,material help and I contribute financially and by providing materials.
2. There are some schools with which I associate and help them in conducting coaching clasess in non-curricular works like hobbies. To run clubs and association for young people to incculcate the usefulness of hobbies. I contribute materials required to develop the hobbies.
3. There are some known friends who are constantly donating some portion of their earnings for a cause, I participate by giving some financial help.
4. Lastly, I do get some free materials in my business which has intrinsic value for some down trodden people like pencils, note books and other stationery items. I just give them once a year, after pooling all those freebies, which the recipients cannot get elsewhere. Here no racisim, no discrimination, it is just the need of the person/persons and availability of such materials with me is the sole criteria for donation.
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
9 Nov 07
We have a rummage sale once a year at our church to help the poor and a friend of mine whose daughter worked at an orphanage in Mexico, also had a garage sale to help the orphans down there and especially to pay for their schooling. I am not that good at crafts, but I do help where I can, but I do not like giving based on what the person looks like, so I like giving into a general missionary fund, and my church offerings.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
12 Nov 07
I do believe that when you give willy nilly , you have no idea where the money is going. There are scams out there who prey on the ignorant whereas with a church, they do not want to just give their help to anyone===there is a verse in the Bible a about casting your pearls before swine--- the church is there to provide spiritual as well as material help.
@Stiletto (4579)
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9 Nov 07
I donate primarily to Oxfam and Save The Children. Their work is international and spans many countries although of course a great deal of it takes place in Africa. I've been to Africa and seen some of the poverty first hand so I'm glad of that. However my wish to donate is not motivated by a persons colour. I just can't bear the thought of children dying of hunger, lack of clean water and preventable disease.
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@Stiletto (4579)
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10 Nov 07
It's true that in some cases education and challenging cultural traditions is needed but really the issues facing parts of Africa are complex and the biggest problems are lack of clean water, political corruption, wars and lack of infrastructure. Of course the climate doesn't help either. The fact is 25000 people die every day from hunger and poverty in Africa and some 34 million people across the continent are at risk from famine. So of course some of the problems are manmade - wars, corruption, etc but as usual it's the children that suffer most and they are blameless.
What I particularly like about Oxfam and Save The Children is that they implement programs which enable people to help themselves. So do other charities of course like Christian Aid, etc but I've just always been involved with the first two. Plus we have both an Oxfam and a Save The Children store in the town where I live so it's quite handy for donations of clothing, etc!
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
9 Nov 07
I cannot afford to donate to organizations, although I have heard that Oxfam and Save the Children do a great job, so I do it through my Church and they make sure that what they give only goes where it can help the people, not some business organization. In fact, they prefer that after a time, the people can start businesses and support themselves. and that has happened. I also learned that when these children die, much of it is ignorance, like in one country there were fruit trees, yet it was customary not to eat them, and in another, a woman who had lost all her children and had one son left who was starving did not want to feed him nutritious food because he did not want it.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
10 Nov 07
I think a lot of the problem has to do with government corruption. I have seen tv broadcasts of food and supplies being brought in on planes and yet it sits their on the dock while, I gather, those whom the government considers favorable to them, gets the first dibs. I also heard that trucks with food and aid for outlying reasons being stopped because the intended recipients were against the present government. And another things, the aid that is going to stop global warming should be going to the people who need it. Isn't good medical care better than trying to stop the building of a gas station?
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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9 Nov 07
I am happy to donate to anyone who can show me that no one working for the charity organisation is taking a wage out of my donation, I have yet to find one
blessed be
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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12 Nov 07
YES, WOULDNT IT BE NICE IF THOSE WHO Bleach charaties gave their time as a charitable donation, yes even those who do the books?
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
12 Nov 07
You will not. Most charities have to pay those who do their books and especially if they give tax receipts. However, it should not be that much and no child should be made to suffer because you will not give. I do believe in accountability.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
9 Nov 07
I agree the color of the child shouldn't matter. I always wonder why we the public are being asked to help children miles and miles away when we can't even help the kids here in North America.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
12 Nov 07
That is the problem. I see many poor kids here on TV and yet it is the face of the child so far away that moves us. Maybe it is pride, that we feel better helping some child that looks exotic than a child that looks like you and me.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
12 Nov 07
But it shouldn't matter. I think they use needy children from overseas because they assume that people believe that there are no North American kids in need.
@rosebug23 (1906)
• Australia
9 Nov 07
I don't give to charities ,i am a member of a service organisation and do lots of work raising money to give to different organisations.What i like about the service club i am in is that we all pay fees and this covers all expenses so 100%of money raised goes to the organisations we decide to give it too be it in our country, international or in our local community .
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
12 Nov 07
I give through my church. Although people in other countries need help, I believe that there are those close by that should be helped first.
@carlaabt (3504)
• United States
15 Nov 07
We are getting ready to decide what charity to give to next year. We donate money directly from my husband's check before we ever see it. It goes to the same place for a year, and then in November or the first part of December, we decide who it will be the following year. We also donate to a couple of animal charities, because we are both big animal people.
Besides that, we only donate locally. We participate in most fundraisers for the local humane society, and we donate to the food banks. That's all we can afford to do. And we feel that it's best to help people locally anyway.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
9 Nov 07
The last few years I haven't donated. I do donate some things to thrifty store but money wise I'm keeping a tight budget just in case. I used to donate to MSF and any animal protection organization. MSF people are sent all over the world, so I know that any one needs help all over the world will get help. I myself am Asian and came from a poor country. I know how it feels to be poor and forgotten, there is no way I will make others feel that way.
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
10 Nov 07
I am on a budget, and I am of German English extraction and I really do not care of the ethnicity of the person nor their color. I give clothes away to the thrift store, and donate through my Church that does not care where the person came from, only that there is a need.
@anniepa (27955)
• United States
9 Nov 07
I pay absolutely no attention to the ethnicity of the needy, a person in need is a person in need, PERIOD! I give to local fundraisers, such as for someone who needs help for cancer treatments or other medical problems and I always give a little to the Salvation Army when they have their drives. Also, I give canned goods and other non-perishable food items to our local food drives during the hoidays and also when the NALC has their annual food drive every spring. It does bother me that there are so many charities for those in foreign countries when there are also many in need right here in the US. I also like to check if a charity has a large "administration cost" instead of giving most of the donations directly to those in need. I'm ashamed to admit I haven't attended church for years, but I still sometimes send my church a donation. Lately, things have been tough so I haven't had as much to give as I'd like to but hopefully things will get better and I can help more once again. Great topic!
Annie
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
10 Nov 07
I do not make that much money, so all I can do is to give offerings in my Church to help the poor in the neighborhood and abroad and when there is a campaign, I cannot give as much as I could. I do not want to know the race or the ethnicity of the people who receive the goods. If I had the money to give, I would donate to Second Harvest since I did see a couple of tv shows about the poor in America, that it made me upset.
@blackbriar (9076)
• United States
12 Nov 07
The desire to help the less fortunate is what drives me to donate but, unfortunately, we are pretty close to being the less fortunate ourselves so can't donate. Once in a while if I have change in my pocket, I'll put it in a jar for animals, cancer patients, whatever the stores are collecting for at the time. When my daughter's school has the salvation army barrels up, I'll send some canned/dry goods to school for her to donate and I save all the campbell labels/box tops for her school as well.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
12 Nov 07
We can only do what we can. That is what the elders in my church told me. Even if we are supposed to give 10 percent according to the Bible, if that is too much, then 5 percent will help. The same with giving, if you cannot afford to give any of your money and you have no time to volunteer, than picking up pennies off the street and cans and bottles will help.
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
9 Nov 07
I donate time through my church and help cook dinner on Monday nights for the homeless shelter. I either go home after cooking if too many people are there or I go to the shelter as well and help serve the people who come to eat and bible study. As for your question, I don't think that race should influence the recipients donation or to which charity they choose to donate too. I like to know that anything I donate or put my efforts into will benefit the community at large regardless of race.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
12 Nov 07
You can donate in many days rather than with money and I feel it is best to donate without worrying whether a certain ethnic group needs it more.
@sweeetkisses2 (269)
• United States
9 Nov 07
i donate to the church as well.
& i dontate to the sheltters with clothing and can goods and etc..i know there are lots of people out there who dc to help out,i feel wat if i was in the place these people are i would want help too.
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
12 Nov 07
I do not have much time to volunteer, but I do give offerings at my church and I know what little I give will help the community.
@xXxMikesWifeyxXx (3072)
• United States
8 Nov 07
Ive actually only donated a few times in my life. and i dod apply to donate to childrens international.. they have a list you can choose from. or you can choose the list were they give you a child who is in most need...of course that what i put for a child in most need.. i got a child from india..
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
9 Nov 07
I donate through my church and they do not differentiate as to what ethnic group the children belong to and they prefer to give to children who have a spiritual need and to missions. Many of the missions they have donated to, can now support themselves which does not seem the case where the big organizations helped.