"Hello" , Can You Hear Me ? Of Course Not!

@budsr03 (2350)
Canada
November 8, 2007 1:57pm CST
You can't hear me or see me, so i want you to know i speak with a kindness in my voice and a smile on my face! Even if i'm having a bad day, i will be kind! I wonder how some of you speak and your expression! Do you answer the phone with a smile? I know i've had a good day when i realize i haven't offended anyone! It feels so good! Take care!
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bong_domingo
@bong_domingo (878)
• Philippines
8 Nov 07
i can sense you're a great buddy.... when i visited your mylot, i just sense that fatherly presence :-) just never expected i'd find that online.... Take care
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budsr03
@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
9 Nov 07
Your words mean a lot to me and i hope i never prove you wrong! I know there are honest and real people online but i wouldn't know the percentage. I'm sure you answer the phone with a smile too! Take care Bong.
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bong_domingo
@bong_domingo (878)
• Philippines
9 Nov 07
Every person u "bump into" (offline/online) has purpose so u ask urself, "how did this person touch my life?", yet w/ you, I never really asked... i just thanked :-) * this is forwarded txt msg i got from jd :-) that i wish to share to you buddy
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roniroxas
@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
11 Dec 07
i always answer the phone with politeness. even i had a bad day i dont answer the phone with a bad mood. people who calls you dont know what you feel so atleast be polite on answering it. now if that person ask how are you then it is the time to tell that you had a rough day.
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budsr03
@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
12 Dec 07
It feels very good to hear a friendly voice on the other end of the phone call! It always puts a smile on my face when i'm not smiling! You are so right about being polite and i just know that you would be pleasant to talk to! Take care Roniroxas.
funnysis
@funnysis (2619)
• United States
8 Nov 07
I always have a smile on my face and I am always nice as the rest of the world didn't cause me to have a bad day so why take it out on them.I just smile and go about my day it don't matter it will get better as long as I have a positive out look on it thank you for sharing and have a wonderful day.
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budsr03
@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
8 Nov 07
Thank you for the reply Funnysis! One reason for this discussion is to let people know a bit about me! I sometimes worry about my replies because i use humor a lot and i don't want to or mean to offend anyone. I realize now that life is short and i want to make the best of it! Take care Funnysis. :)
pyewacket
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
9 Nov 07
Actually I can hear you...hehee Yes even if I have a crappy day I'll be nice when talking on the phone. I also make it a point that say I have a dispute with some service, phone, electric whatever, I talk to the other person pleasantly and never rudely and above all never do a screaming, ranting and raving thing as I know that doesn't get anyone anywhere even though I confess there are times I would like to yell at them a bit..LOL I learned long time ago, if you're nice and pleasant with someone that you are talking on the phone, they'll be pleasant with you
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budsr03
@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
9 Nov 07
I'm glad to know that about you! I'm still learning how to be nice and pleasant. Communicating with others in a civilized manner was hardly available for us (family) in our younger days, so i can say it is mostly self taught. Please don't think to badly about my parents, they did their best despite lack of education and other issues! Although you were getting the run around Pye you held it altogether and got good results. I would have blown a gasket! lol! Take care.
faith210
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
9 Nov 07
Hi budsr03! I do answer the phone with a smile even though there are a few times that I have some tears in my eyes. haha.. I completely agree with you that it really feels good when you know that you have not offended anyone at all. I love those days when i am at peace with everyone. :) Take care and have a nice day!
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budsr03
@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
9 Nov 07
Hi Faith! I hope those tears are joyous ones? :) I think all my friends are kind and friendly, i certainly feel comfortable with some special ones! I hope you have a super day and take care Faith. :)
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vivianguo
@vivianguo (57)
• China
27 Nov 07
I don't know whether you are smiling just NOW,but i can imagine your kindness and smile when your wrote this dicussion:)i am now quite busy since i am preparing for an important exam but i am not feeling stressful.With a cup of hot coffee or tea,I speak kindly to the author of the book i am reading,even it is a textbook!since i can feel good this way and enjoy the process of studying.Everyone has his or her own life and we are enjoying it!
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budsr03
@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
27 Nov 07
Indeed i am smiling because you have put it there! It means a lot to me how people feel, i wish everyone could be happy most of the time! You seem to have a good spirit and kindness! I wish you the very best in your upcoming test! Good results for good people is how it should be! Take care Vivianguo. :)