should he or shouldnt he
By tina0674
@tina0674 (47)
United States
November 9, 2007 11:21am CST
ok heres the thing my brother has been in a relationship for6 yrs noe for the past yr id say they been on and off he says he loves her she says she loves him yada yada well everytime something happens and they argue she runs to another state for a week or so she says its to think now she was married before him shes older then he is she has not gotten a divorce for some reason and is not pushing the issue on getting one now hes thinking of marriage but she dont ever want to get maried again i say she needs to let him get on with his life and leave him be if she cant make up her mind wether or not she wants to stay with him she says im just trying to see if its going to work out how long does it take to decide if you want to be with someone i mean come on sometimes i just want to go a whoop her ... lol for the way shes stringin him along i could go into a lot more about this but i dont want to wright a book right now lol.
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@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
10 Nov 07
I hate to say it, but your brother is being used. She is still not divorced from her first husband? What is she waiting for? Obviously she is not ready for marriage, or for a relationship for that matter. She certainly needs to let him go and find the right person for him, who will love him with open arms and not string him along. I would have a serious talk with your brother about this before he makes the biggest mistake of his life. His girlfriend sounds like a real mess and he needs to run for the hills on this one.
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@Azreeainul (18)
• Norway
10 Nov 07
I have no idea since im not familiar with such case,lol
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@sherrir101 (3670)
• Malinta, Ohio
9 Nov 07
To me, it sounds like she is taking him for a ride. I personally would give her the heave ho, but he has got to do what he needs to do, himself. If she does not want to get married, fine. But *not* to get divorced? It sounds like she wants to hang on to her husband, for some reason.
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