Sue your father or not???
@singlemommyforever (97)
Philippines
November 9, 2007 9:14pm CST
Year 2005 my father left us for another woman..He left us nothing..as a matter of fact in the same year our house was burned by fire..and nothing left..after 2 years he didn't support my family..this month he called the presence of my brother and sisters, (he got mad at me i don't know why)(im the eldest daughter) my sister borrowed the video cam and we saw the mistress and their daughter celebrating the 1st bday, and we are very shock because they have lots of jewelries in their body, they have cars, the house is newly built..but for us the first family don't have nothing..
I spoke with my mother is she want to sue my father..she said yes..but when i asked my brother and sisters they got angry with me..
what will i do??
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3 responses
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
10 Nov 07
Is it he heard something that is very annoying to him, which had a connection to you, but you never do that stuff?
If yes, you will need to clear up this problem before it is getting worse and find out who is the arsonist, you might don't know if someone nearby who didn't like you and your family at all, and use this advantage to knock you all down.
The wheel of fortune will always be turned upside-down. Be yourself as long as you are in the right path.
@singlemommyforever (97)
• Philippines
13 Nov 07
the problem is he don't want to see me anymore..i don't know why...i tried to contact him many times but he refused...i want to clarify everything sad to say, it seems that he really don't want to come back to us..
@nkhanna (922)
• India
13 Nov 07
i think it suing ur father wud not resolve the issue,rather it ll burn it more.n furthermore ur siblings r nt supporting u for that.so i guess u sud not go for it.all that u sud do is to talk to ur father.ask him if he has heard something bad bout ?orelse y is he angry with/y doesnt he wanna c u?i m sure if he ll give u reasons.try to clear out the misunderstandings.many times u need to extra patience in ur life to resolve things.might b the other aldy wud have told something bad bout u n ur mother,n thats y ur dad is doing so.its just a guess.try to sit with ur father all alone n discuss it for once n ever,bt in a calm manner.i hope this resolves ur prob.m sorry if i have hurted u in this response.i applogise.gud day
@singlemommyforever (97)
• Philippines
13 Nov 07
It's ok..thanks..
The problem is he don't want to see me...i tried to reach him out by getting some info from his family..but they refuse to give any contacts from him..
Anyhow, i just prayed that the wheel of fortune will turned to us...
Thanks..I really appreciate your comments..have a nice day..
@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
10 Nov 07
Don't sue your father if you and your siblings are adults. It's unfortunate that he didn't take care of his first family, but his money will not make up for the past. Sometimes we just have to make our own way in life, and we are the better for it.
